The 1950s was such a great decade! Women wore dresses and skirts almost all the time, and if they didn't, it was to look bossy and masculine in a feminine way. The head of the house expected — and received — obedience from everyone under his roof. He could read the paper, listen to the radio, and put his feet up while no one would disturb him. If only we could go back to those days! I like to emulate the 1950s. A deliciously servile submissive would add a lot to a lifestyle like that.

Why do subs always write about their complaints? "He made me call him Sir even before we got to know each other." "I don't show so-called Doms respect until they earn it."

Why do subs write like this? Why do they have such a disrespectful attitude? Where are the true subs — the ones who feel the calling to servitude, the ones who fall in love before they size up a Dom, the ones who know what they are and are likely to fall into line just from an eye blink or a subtle wave of a finger?

So many women who call themselves "sub" are really just fetishistic bottoms who seek men to fulfill their self-image, to act like dominants but become the real submissive in the relationship. These men are just as much to blame for the miscommunication as the arrogant women who think they are subs.

The true sub will come to her Master, ready to obey, eschewing the hoop-jumping that is so common to these imposters. Where are they?

I want a sub who wants to be controlled. She must have that spark that energizes her to find someone with a complementary pathology.

It's strange in a way to be on this site, because I am seeking a woman with whom I can have a connection and then (and only then) test out the range of BDSM experiences. It seems that people here do it the opposite way: they ask, "What do you like, what equipment do you own?" as if you can just snap into position a human being like she is another of your toys.

What could be better than coming home to wifey who is wearing her big old apron and ready to do anything her man wants? Return with us to the days when the man ruled the roof -- without having to resort to overt Domination. Add to it the enjoyment to BDSM today, and you have a per -- "wife" does whatever "husband" wants. I need my bowl and pipe. Anyone want to get it?