honeybunch on Collarspace

3/22/2007 2:38:17 PM

Dominants who send IMs to ladies professing to be submissives..please take a bit of advice from this submissive. In my ever-so-humble opinion, it is not a good thing to IM someone and then immediately begin asking very personal questions. At least with this submissive--that is a major red flag and usually ends the conversation right then. Take some advice...don't ask "what is your bra size?" "do you like anal sex?" in the first few minutes of the IM conversation! Those questions may be important to You..but to me..they prove there is only one thing on Your mind..and it isn't a relationship--which is what i seek! So, it would be bye-bye for You. If You would like to get to know me for awhile...then perhaps we will discuss those So important questions. But, make me feel comfortable with YOU as a person first!! I am not here to PLAY online..therefore..i really should not be asked those questions online. That is, of course, just my opinion. Others may feel differently. But, if You aren't getting anywhere--finding "miss right"--perhaps take a close look at the way You are talking to the women You are chatting with. AND...do not expect her to call You "Master" or even "Sir" until You have earned those titles from her. They are not handed out just because You claim to be a Dominant male. If that were the case, those titles would be worthless...which they are not.