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I am the female, my husband(we met here) will have nothing to do with my slave, he is not interested....so if you are lesbian or you aren't looking for a male owner, read further. Too many say that is what they want but then they keep asking if he is going to use them, and how they "wouldn't mind" and such. Not going to happen.
Get so many emails simply asking "what are you looking for" or "are you looking to own".....My profile is pretty detailed on the basics of that, what I am seeking as well as what I am offering. Not all is included no, but if there is something you'd like to know that you do not see here in my profile then by all means feel free to ask. But an introduction about yourself and why you found interest in my profile would be a nice start instead of the 'text' speak emails asking things that are clearly covered within this profile makes a much better impression.
Prefer female or feminine trans-please have the means for video chat-if you don't have a cam nor the means to take a picture with you holding handwritten note with my name then don't bother to contact me.
If needed, yes I would pay for your relocation when the time came. Depending on your situation and how things progress with our relationship you may work part time or not at all.
I miss the strong emotional bond I seem to only be able to have with a female, hoping to find someone who understands that energy that comes where just a smile or look is alluring.
I am retired and lots of free time to own a pet. Although I am married and we met here, he isn't online nor does he want to use a slave if/when I collar one-so created this for just myself. I had been seeking a local male for chores, but decided at this point I would like to have a female live in slave pet for myself. After all, before him I only dated women for years :)
you would be subservient to me and must be eager to please in many areas with a small amount of limits which can be discussed. I submit sexually to my boyfriend who is Dominant but not local( Europe) and we take turns visiting one another. you could accompany me abroad.
Feel free to ask any questions.
We can talk via Skype or y! chat so we can both see and hear one another to make sure serious before waste too much time talking and getting to know one another. We have 2 minors but privacy for use time via separate office building on property that I turned into 'playroom'; if you have minor/s it may still work depending on a few factors. Seeking long term but it takes time to get to know one another. My schedule is open so if you are local we could meet easily-if you are long distance we can use phone and video chats to get to know another and if both interested we can meet up after a bit of time to talk face to face.
you would do daily tasks, and be there for my use and amusement when I so desire it-we can discuss your hard limits to see if they match my own. But if you 'can't' be caged, or degraded, then we wont be a potential match. I do attend local munches and events , albeit rarely, so you must be ok with accompanying me to such things if I wish for you to come along.
I enjoy pet play in the sense you would be sometimes treated as my human pet, somewhat along the lines of a dog. I'm also considering taking my slave in the future for pony training as I have watched it in person and have some interest.....I would be open to the softer side of things if you desire it and earn it, such as nursing you (I am lactating) and us going on fun outings. This would depend on how things developed. For anyone long term, there would be a variety of things.
I am not so naïve that I am thinking I will find 100% what I think I want in someone else, after all things vary and change and sometimes you didn't realize you wanted or enjoyed something(or someone) until it is happening. One of the joys of life isn't it? Send me a message if you would like to get to know another and/or have any questions.
non-cigarette smokers, or able to quit as I do not like the smell or taste of cigarette smoke
420 is okay
Yes I enjoy humiliation, degrading, watersports, rimming, toilet play, as well as whips, canes, belts, cages(have a large barred cage in my playroom), bondage, biting, and other sadistic things but also enjoy sensual side and just general control as well
My husband has nothing to do with this other than the fact he is fine with my girlfriend, pet, sub, or anything else i choose, to live here in our home. He will NOT be using my you, stop Asking
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Not seeking or looking at the moment. That includes just meeting with people to talk in person. Will delete this when I am once again open to meeting. |
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Amazing how many people who claim to be 'in the lifestyle' are ignorant about what being polyamorous means. No I do not have sex with random people, that sounds like swingers. In fact I can count all my male sexual partners ,for my entire life, on my fingers. Polyamorous means I am open to having multiple meaningful ongoing relationships. I married my husband because I love him, and he is not poly but is 100% fine with my being poly. Don't pretend to be open minded then be rude and condescending about terms and other lifestyle choices that you do not understand. Yes my husband know my boyfriend, in fact when he visits he stays here at our home.
I will NOT meet with anyone who is cheating, so if you are married or in relationship yes I would need to speak with him/him. If we pursue anything serious I would need to meet your other/s in person at least once. If you cannot abide that, then there is no need for us to talk.
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Don't be shy to message me, I will respond to all emails from females. We can speak on phone after a few messages if you'd like, as that is easier way to get to know one another. |
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Anyone local want to meet up at DisneyQuest one day this week? |
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Many I chat with ask about the process of being trained to please/becoming my slave. To me, I think it important in the beginning you will only see me, I will keep you in the large cage(plenty of room to stretch out) or at my feet. I will slowly break your will to fight back because we both know you want to be pleasing. It is a process. Treated as a my human pet, and we learn of one another. Yes, it goes both ways. I will learn your body and reactions to things and therefore not everything is set in stone. My pet should become addicted to me, yearning to be near me, just as any other pet should be with an owner they love. No you don't need to know every detail, after all surprises are fun aren't they ;) No, it isn't all about pain, how boring....neither is punishment, by the way, all about pain. I like being creative and am truly searching for that one that I will embrace all aspects of it's personality. No my pet will not work, at least the first year. I don't think that is conducive to showing it exactly how to please me, and incorporating it into my household when the time comes.
Some random things as they come up in chats: you should know how to swim, I go to the beach and I love swimming nude in my pool at home
if I decide you will wear a chastity belt or anything else preventing sexual release, I will do so, just as I will use my strapon or put you into the stockade for a fucking machine-your body will be mine, but more than that I will make you crave to be near me
No I don't want to own anyone who wants to be hobbled or caged 24/7. If I want you to come with me out to dinner or something else, you will be cleaned up and dressed up and be sexy and cute for me to enjoy your company
Doesn't mean there wont be times I will treat my pet in a harsh and restrictive manner, for hours....for days....whatever amuses me. Might be in bondage and sensory deprivation, whether punishment or for my pleasure. I enjoy using the belt, cane, and signal whip. Yet also like sensual things. |
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I was talking with an old college friend about what I am seeking....she says I am too picky and it sounds wonderful but will take a long time. Hmm waiting isn't fun no, but its better than wasting time with the wrong ones and missing the right one when she comes along, right? Yes, I shall be patient. Then again I like impulsive things that lead to fun times. Play doesn't equal affection....and without passion what's the point? |
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Finally a warm day again, headed to Disneyworld and maybe one of the water parks this afternoon |
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It has been cold here, not just cold for Florida, but really COLD. Lowest temps I have saw since we moved here about 3 years ago. Supposed to be back to the 80's in a few days. I think some nice outdoor play would be nice in this situation ;) |
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Most of us are here hoping to find the right match...maybe for a little while, perhaps longer if we are lucky. Yet we can so easily disregard someone based on interests or being impatient with how someone else expects things to progress in the process of getting to know one another. It's a shame we get jaded from those who aren't genuine (no matter their reason why) and slowly you just think 'what's the use really?' since you don't want to feel you are wasting your time with another 'fake'. But I am not going to find my pet at the mall or store. There should be a local speed dating for BDSM event. Ironically, the type I want are probably too shy to come.
I'm patient, so I will wait for the one who dreams of being owned in the manner I seek and who knows it isn't set in stone. Cant stand how many emails I get wanting to know exactly what I'm "going to do" with my pet/slave. Who meets someone and starts asking how their whole relationship is going to go? It should flow naturally. Something I enjoyed with someone else I might not want to use her for-I may want to try new things. We might make up lists of pervy things and put them in a jar and pull them out one by one to experience. Maybe you will be surprised with many things that make your heart beat faster-sometimes from joy, sometimes from fear. Exuberance will come, otherwise we aren't doing it right and we can have some nice chats about how we both want things to progress. Yes I will make the decisions but we are both humans beyond our desires. Don't sell yourself short that all you have to off are your holes. If that is you, I wouldn't be interested. So many write and want to 'loaned' out (for a better term). I'm not here to give you a free place to stay and set you up for gang bangs. Not saying it would never happen if you were slave, it might. Also might shave your head and make you wear clothes you can't stand to make you realize your only true worth comes from how your owner values you, not random people. But I want someone with a brain, with value, and a personality. |
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So after ignoring my own 'rule' and chatting for a couple days with Three 'females' who then *poof* when I say I need proof they are actually female before we keep talking...back to my rule 100% If you have no verification photo like mine, can't verify on a video chat(fully dressed) or some other means of definite proof you are who you say, don't bother to message me. If I wanted a male, I would throw a rock and choose once from the masses. |
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debating which fucking machine to get....pretty sure I am going with 'the plow' from extreme restraints, if anyone has experience in them please sent me a message. I am planning to build another platform bed with a stockade and wont be buying the fucking machine until that is complete most likely. |
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After a weekend away with an old flame I realize just HOW much I miss having a female partner....maybe I should look for a local switch or sub female who is seeking a relationship....someone who enjoys some of the same things I do, not just behind closed doors but out and about. Swimming, games, movies, amusements parks, travel, etc |
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wanting to find 2 local male slaves who wish to be servants; one for indoors and one for outdoors
after chores are done there will be time in playroom, limits respected but must be into enough things that I enjoy to make it fun--ideally both being into 'forced' bi would be lots of fun ;) Message me if interested |
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Amazing that with todays technology there are still others duped by fake profiles with pics from porno sites and such. Use google images, its free and easy. If there were not so many people who give their money away to these scammers, they wouldn't be here-simple as that, so stop being so naïve and take 3 minutes to reverse search a picture. |
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if you are local, I do sometimes attend munches in the area, so we could meet there instead of one on one for first public meeting if you would prefer |
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