I'm naturally submissive, I've always hated that side of my personality.  I can stand up for myself if absolutely necessary but more often than not, I just go with the flow.  People mistake this for indecisiveness or stupidity.  While I can be indecisive that's not the problem, it's that I genuinely want whatever you want.  This isn't limited to dating partners but in everyday life as well, with my friends, in my place of employment, I'm constantly trying to please everyone.  I wish I was more assertive, less worried about making everyone happy, but I'm twenty-eight years old, I don't think my personality is going to change much.  I'm completely submissive in my heart but, due to my inability to find a partner who can dominate me while still care for me (I get one or the other but never both) I am completely running my own life.  This is a great trait but one I'm tired of.  I live alone, pay all my own bills, make all my own decisions, it's not who I was meant to be.  I'm not out looking for someone to support me financially (although if a 24/7 situation were to come up, I'm not opposed to it), I'm looking for someone to support me emotionally.  I'm tired of being alone, I'm tired of making decisions, I'm tired of pretending to be someone I'm not...