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Hello

I am looking for a (young) lady who is willing to give up her life as a usual woman and instead continue kind of dehumanized, as my toy only for the rest of her life.

What you may expect and what I wish: You will be my toy for any sexual desires, my bondage doll, my piece of decoration at home and show piece on every exhibition or show (or wherever I'm going to show you off and brag with my toy) and you'll be my house slave.
You won't be allowed any clothes any more, or, if at all, only "see through" pieces of a kind that grant access to the female parts of you at any time.
Your most common "dress" at home is very likely to be different sets of chains (or tailor made equipment from leather and similar) that will restrict your possibilities of movement less or more.
Furthermore your pubic hair will be permanently depilated and your labia and nipples will be pierced in a kind that it will be very clear on first sight for everyone who looks at it that this is no jewelry at all, only designed to mark you as my slave and to constantly remind you of your status as my toy.
These conditions are not negotiable.
Additionally and depending on what we may agree in an initial and consensual "now-and-forever- agreement" you'll get steel shackles around your wrists, ankles, neck and waist, permanently, meaning, any of these parts will be removed only in cases of taking you out to a place where your appearance has to be according to the usual rules of society.
An example of a usual day could be that I decide to keep you in rather short chains while I leave for work, so you'll find it very difficult to do whatever at home. Being at home again, I might like it to see you tied to the cross, so it will happen until I decide to change anything, no matter whether that may be after 30 minutes or after 4 hours at the cross. During the night, it may well be I'll have you tied neatly at the head part of my bed to use you as my pillow overnight(s), however, in case you may have behaved badly or simply because I want to be on my own, I might also just lock you into a very narrow cell or cage or crate, or suspend you under the ceiling in any possible helpless way whatsoever ... no matter what it will be, you will be tied overnights in any case.
From the moment you give yourself into my hands you won't experience a single night anymore without being restricted.
Of course I am well aware that it will be difficult to get used to in the beginning, but I also know from experience, that it has to be done consequently to get used to it within reasonable time. You wouldn't want to perceive that as an ongoing challenge for years, would you? Therefore you have to get used to that standard as quick as possible from the first night.
We might also go fine dining, or dancing, or join cultural events, if I decide so; and we'll enjoy life to the fullest. However, you will have to earn such kind of actions as it will be rewards for i.e. extraordinary performance in service or great endurance of bondage or similar.
But beware, as well as you can earn such enjoyable parts of life, you can also earn "challenges" in case of bad behavior or bad service.
It will depend on you and your attitude only whether you see to your future life as a life in misery and "brutal captivity" with lots of torture and punishment or in "passion of bdsm and bondage" with lots of challenges and rewards.
Of course some of the actions will hurt, too, or are simply too much to ever get used to, but that's just part of that lifestyle. But you have to know I am not of the type of man who loves to senselessly hurt you only for the sake of pain. I am a sadistically dom, for sure, however, I am no real sadist who derives pleasure from your pain only. But I do have to admit I love watching my toy suffer, mostly from bondage, be it through its strictness, position or duration (the urge to get untied again will set in and become bigger and bigger); I also love watching my toy in her desperation to work something into any of her orifices although it is too big, maybe only to gain a specific reward that I may have promised in case my toy manages to master that challenge.

Things you have to be very clear about:
You won't have any right to say no when it comes to anything about the body, that, as of now, is still yours, but is going to be mine as soon as you become my property. It will be my decision only if and if so, in what kind that body will be modified, treated, be taken care of, in what condition it will be held and so on.
Guests and everybody else I determine or grant access will be allowed to touch you in every way I see fit. In some rare cases, special guests will be granted access to your mouth in a sense of service or gift for the guest. However, the one thing that won't happen is to share your crotch, neither vaginally nor anally.
That will remain mine for my pleasure only. In this sense, our relationship (marriage?) will be strictly monogamously.

I am very much about security and safety.
However, SSC (safe sane consensual) doesn't fit, it is more of RACK (risk aware consensual kink). The consensual part is the beginning, when you are going to agree spending your future life under the described conditions.
I will NOT beat you in any senseless kind. In case we agree on such action, you might be whipped or suffer from strokes with a cane or similar in appropriate situations, however, this kind of action is nothing I insist on. I don't need that. In my opinion, men who "need" to and who cannot do anything else but beat women in whatever senseless kind are mentally challenged. But as a common passion or in moments really needed for discipline, if initially agreed on mutually, I see it differently.

Absolute hard limits
are scat, animals, vampirism, anything that is only designed to make you bleed, brandings (except for one to sign you as my property), any third parties involved in sexual actions, and of course, minors.
And as the last point of my hard limits: I do not want any children. That wish simply doesn't match with the desired lifestyle.
Just in case you would insist on or expect any of these things, you are not the right one for me.
Anything else may be and can happen or not, depending on situation, initial agreements, mood and so on.

Once you are my property, there will be no way out any more.
(unless a limited period of time was agreed on mutually already before anything began) Just in case anything unforeseen would accidently happen to me, another person, a good friend, who is comparable to me, will take you in, so you won't need to fear for your future. That will be well taken care of in any case and is part of what I do to grant your safety in all cases.
As a matter of fact, I will also take care of the usual needs for living, medicals and so on.

Thank you for reading my entire profile. If there are any questions left, just ask.
Tom

PS:
As long as I have no relationship I can accommodate ladies who want to "try themselves" for a weekend (or whatever period of time) only just to try, without any further obligation :-) and in full security of my discretion and acceptance of set hard limits (except for the bondage itself).
So, just in case you'd like to try what it is like to be helpless i.e. for weekend or a week or a fortnight, but do not wish to be sexually abused though for you only want to try the helplessness, I offer this possibility and grant your safety.
1/3/2013 4:11:22 AM

Do not write to me if you want me to move you.

If you really want that kind of life, you have to get to my place on your own.
I will take it as the ultimate sign you really want it.
It will be the very last expense you'll have to do on your own anyway.

If you come to be mine for good you won't need anything but  one set of clothes for being able to leave the house with me during the first couple of days. 

Nothing else.

daddysjannah
 
 Age: 32
  Michigan