I would love to learn more about the BDSM lifestyle. I'm not interested in living the lifestyle 24/7. I find myself fantasizing about being a sub quite often. I guess I'm on this site because I allowed my curiosity to get the best of me. So far I've had a lot of older men contact me...I'm sorry fellas, I'm not interested in older men. 35 is my maximum age and 25 is my minimum age. I'm not trying to be rude, just being honest. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I'm shy, but not afraid. I'll be sure to update my profile as I learn more about myself and what it is that I want. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope you enjoy! Oh! BTW...what's all this talk about the fakes and such? I don't understand their motives. We don't get paid for being on here, so what's the catch? Just wondering.