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| Life is short, why not have fun?
I'm serious about fooling around. No time or tolerance for anyone with an agenda other than finding out how we can mutually achieve pleasure. It doesn't matter how. Neither does age, body shape, other business or relationships in your life. If we can figure out a way to make each other happy from time to time--whatever our lives permit--the rest is not my business.
I don't mix up role playing -- submission or domination -- with notions of POSSESSION or with some twist on ROMANCE. This should be about THE MUTUAL PURSUIT OF PLEASURE THROUGH WHATEVER WORKS FOR THE PARTIES INVOLVED. Don't mix up play with life.
USING AND BEING USED FOR PLEASURE is just that: It is not some path to eternal bliss, but rather it is a WONDERFULLY HUMAN capability.
Others see this all as a lifestyle and more power to them; I do not judge others' concepts or practices. But I do strongly condemn ALL FORMS OF NONCONSENSUAL ABUSE.
You may have come here to this site because of some period of interest in bdsm short or long. You may even be here because you read the bullshit FIFTY SHADES OF GRAY or heard about the movie. But BDSM is NOT a romance novel with added toys.
In either case, you are curious or know (or think you might know) what you need.
So don't hook up with an immature, insecure, phony boastful jerk who thinks bdsm is a license to abuse or mistreat women. No such bullshit here. I know submission is a choice you make for purposes of play. It is a role--an emotional good fit--not in any way an indication of your strength, weakness, or willingness to be exploited.
I can give you exactly what you need because (1) I am clear that you deserve respect (2) I'm a man who listens and questions to find out exactly what your interests are (3) I am experienced and creative and very confident (4) I know that play is play and there should be NO STRINGS ATTACHED and NO HIDDEN AGENDAS (5) My ego is not at stake.
My goal is to find how we can both get pleasure. Period. I communicate; I don't POSE as something I'm not, some sort of magic master of the universe, some sort of practitioner of male privilege and manipulator of weak women.
I respect and admire and enjoy women and their bodies--all types, with a slight favoritism toward bigger ones. I am no stud who can do extreme gymnastics and calisthenics but I am very responsive. There are advantages to age, not the least of which is that I'm in no hurry to "finish" and I can play with the comfort and all-out abandon of a self-confident mature man. Not trying to seek your approval, just looking for a partner in crime.
I am intelligent and creative and adventurous and have a sense of humor and know how to communicate. I enjoy "directing" any kind of show. I'm a voyeur and will enjoy watching you carry out my instructions.
Comfy in the "daddy dom" role but up for anything and capable of very confident, honest, to-the-point dominance. I love to be teased. I want a sub who is strong and open. No high-maintenance relationship bullshit desired or imposed. I am available for adventures--the more clandestine they are, the more thrilling.
Age is a state of mind more than a physical reality.
We are all works in progress.
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Moved to update my profile and clarify even further by another immersion into the incredible depths of the bullshit being perpetrated on here by bullshit artists who assert their outdated male privilege in new suddenly popular forms of abusive manipulation.
Play is play; it is not salvation through servitude. |
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| Age: 22 |
| Darien,
Illinois |
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