i will be traveling this week for business so my replies might be even slower than they usually are. But if i read your mail and you haven't heard from me in like two or three days it probably means i'm not interested.

i know the following will offend the weak minded, strictly sexually driven, uneducated, inferior, childish and mentally challenged.  And that it will be completely overlooked and never even seen by the picture collectors and professional wankers.  Everyone else should both relate and understand, and those that will earn my interest will even appreciate what i have to say here.

First off i don't need saving or someone pretending to be my knight in shining armor rushing in to rescue me. When the time comes to make a move from my present situation i am quite capable of taking care of that myself, find myself in no danger whatsoever, and more than capable of providing for any and all of my financial needs. 

i have no interest at all in being a stay at home anything or need anyone's financial assistance before, during or after my relocation.  i have every intention of continuing my career so offers of constant travel or kinky homemaker do not appeal to me and are among the first messages to be identified, dismissed, deleted and quickly forgotten. i do appreciate the countless mails saying hello, seeking to chat, asking how my search is progressing or if i'm having any luck, inviting me to view their profile, telling me stories of their favorite fantasy, asking how i'm doing, and especially all the mails telling me how sorry they are my current relationship isn't working.  Those rank just as highly as the unbelievable amount of offers to relocate me immediately knowing exactly what i'm looking for without once having communicated with me at all.  i'm being sarcastic of course as any such mail only results in a sigh and eye roll, followed quickly with either a sarcastic dismissive response or the quick click of the delete button. 

For those actually interested in me i am seeking a MAN older than myself with a career and purpose in life.  Someone that can put a few coherent, interesting and informative sentences together while at least demonstrating the language skills of a high school graduate.  Someone realizing that to capture the mind of an intelligent woman you must have at least the same amount of intelligence and a drive to be successful in your professional life as well as your personal life.  You must be unattached, so married men and couples need not apply.  i'm not interested in baggage or drama as that is one of the things i seek to leave.  So if you have children in the home or even children that visit on a frequent basis i will most likely not be interested.  The same can be said of a fling, part time relationship, online only permanent arrangement or really anything other than a real 24/7 live in arrangement that is respectful of both parties involved. 

i do not accept chat requests or provide my personal email or messenger information to people i have not come to know and trust, and i do not add friends to my friends list that i have not at least exchanged a few emails with before receiving any such request. How can someone possibly be a friend if they haven't sent a single mail before asking to be added as a friend? 

For those of you now interested i invite your intelligent and respectful mailings.  And to those of you offended, i refer you to paragraph one above and ask that you self identify from the options listed.

IF i don't answer your mail right away don't freak out. My husband is home so i'm having to sneak into this as i can and i'm saving the mails that interest me and i'll answer when i can so just be patient. IF i don't answer by Monday it means thanks but not thanks i'm not interested. Ps thanks to all of the girls that have told me about onetruesub4u's mail thing. It's clear I need someone to help and that many of you all saying the same things makes me believe you.

It appears some of you have the wrong idea about me. i am not some desperate woman or need anyone's money. i have a good career and i'm a college graduate with a strong desire to remain employed. i also will not even consider just going to anyone anywhere without any idea about who they are or what i'm getting myself into. If you can't handle a woman with a mind then you should look for someone else. i'm looking for a better situation not another bad one. Don't worry about my divorce here i am quite capable of handling this situation once i find another place to be.