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To clarify, �my time is valuable and I am not�not looking to chat. I converse with �gentlemen who send a polite introduction and have a profile articulating a bit about�themselves and what�type of relationship they seek. �After an initial email, I expect to video conference to verify with whom I am speaking. I do not post photos due to the nature of my employment. �I am not interested in online.

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�I have had vanilla relationships all my life and a female friend who happens to be dominant is mentoring me to see if a D/s relationship may be a good fit for me. There is a part of me that both needs and enjoys the normal interaction that exists between a couple in the vanilla world.� I don�t think it is realistic to maintain a scene-like dynamic at all times.� However, there is also a part of me that needs something beyond the vanilla aspect of a relationship where I defer control to the man that I love and trust.� I am seeking someone with whom I can share aspects of the vanilla world while maintaining an ever present undercurrent of a D/s relationship.
I consider myself a�work in progress with regard to my interest in a D/s relationship.� I am seeking someone who is interested in helping to shape my evolution in this area.� I have reached a point in my life where I am hoping to find �the one�.� I have learned some things about myself, my interests, and my needs relating to submission and I hope to find someone whose interests and needs are in alignment with mine. While my profile lists me as a switch, I lean more towards the submissive side in my relationship.�

I am a multi-faceted person in my vanilla life. �I am an Alpha female professionally and have �solid career of over twenty years which I am interested in continuing to build. �I actively participate and maintain a high level of personal fitness.� I enjoy intellectual stimulation, world events, seeing live music, and drinking wine among many other things.� �I am very well traveled and going to new countries and places is a huge passion of mine. �I would be most compatible with someone who shares my interest in travel and has a general curiosity about the world around them. I want to continue to explore new places and it would be meaningful to share that experience with someone I love.

I am generally attracted to career oriented men.� There is something very sexy and powerful about a man in his business attire making decisions and handing out assignments.� I find education and success attractive and deserving of my respect.� I am interested in men who are within ten years of my age (either direction) although there are exceptions to everything in life.�I prefer a man that takes care of his body and enjoys physical activities as it gives us one more thing in common. I do prefer taller men.
Most of the time I imagine our relationship would function as a normal partnership and it would also appear that way to friends and family. �We will laugh together, be supportive of one another, travel together, and be friends.� �However, we will share the understanding that he is ultimately the boss and I am his submissive partner.� Behind closed doors (and perhaps discretely in public) he will direct me, lead the relationship, and I will work to satisfy him. �
He would value my opinion and have my best interests in mind.� �I realize that he will sometimes make decisions that I don�t like, but I will be able to accept them trusting that he cares about me and would not intentionally do something in conflict with my best interests.�I want to be with a man who values my submission and feels that while he may play the lead role, my role is also valuable.� I am attracted to a man who can assert his dominance without the need to raise his voice or lose his temper.� I will know by a look or gesture whether or not I am pleasing him.� I will strive to remain in his good graces by being a supportive partner in the relationship and meeting his expectations. My partner will be gentle natured and �nurturing.

He is decisive and firm in his use of punishment and discipline when I do not meet those expectations, but he does not hold a grudge after he has punished me or made his point. �He recognizes my strengths and may delegate responsibilities in the relationship accordingly for the benefit of both of us.

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Lastly, I desire to be completely submissive to him in the bedroom.� That doesn't mean I expect kinky sex all the time, it just means I don't have expectations in the bedroom except to perform in the way he chooses. That could mean vanilla sex, just cuddling, or even satisfying his sexual needs and then being told that playtime is over.� I am an affectionate person and would be at my best with someone who is also very affectionate.

He is a boyriend, mentor, and friend.� I hope he is out there looking for me too.

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buni
 
 Age: 27
 Toronto, Canada