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Widower 48…I'm not completely sure what i am looking for at this time. I DO KNOW for sure I want honesty, a strong degree of intelligence, and of course someone who Ican relate to completely...and who is worthy of my gift. . I might play, if I meet someone, I can trust, who wants that, but in reality I am looking for the one that I can make our relationship complete. I am new to the lifestyle and so have not met many friends here yet. I am also not able to relocate at this time. It seems perhaps my most recent encounter (or lack thereof) only served to teach me a lesson. It is not by my choice, but the choices he made that finds me right where I started. Maybe a bit wiser; maybe not. To say it didn't work out is not true, since the opportunity to spend actual time together never happened. The funy thing is I prefer to take things slowly… carefully. And if you can’t accept this.. please more on.

Talk with me only if you are sincerely interested in a relationship. I am not interested in keeping a virtual encounter as a permanent thing. It is reality that interests me.

That seems to be just an illusion. Sometimes we want something so much, we make a choice to take a leap of faith that the person we are talking with is sincere in what they desire and need. So weeks turn into months and the day comes to meet and share time together. Guess what, no show, no call, no message.....just let me believe up to the last moment that she would be here. That is so wrong when all you have to do is pick up the phone or send an electronic note.

Anyway I had a wonderful weekend planned, and yes even planned a couple of special meals, wine, movies, and some other fun things. Spent extra time on my personal grooming and had a couple of new outfits to wear. It is just wrong to let someone believe you are going to be there at a certain date & time; and then just not show.

I am disappointed. Is it really that hard to just say what it is you are seeking, instead up creating an illusion?

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mayumi
 
 Age: 22
 New York, New York