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First of all, there are 3 basic principles of life that apply just as well to BDSM:
(1) Life should be FUN
(2) Life should inspire MEANING
(3) Life should foster LOVE
Now, you can read on:
You can email me at harvard25dom AT gmail DOT com. GCHAT works as well :)
If you write to me, please provide at least 2-3 paragraphs of background information -- just to be nice :)
I'd be lying if I said I were a "regular guy", for I am not -- am a public figure with a lot of involvement in a wide variety of roles in business, media, technology, academic, and commerce circles. I've lived in almost every city you can think of (really!).
That being said, I like girls who can conflate being human and being submissive gracefully. The key is for the girl to be both a vanilla and a kinky fit. These are some of my criteria:
Vanilla: Be artistic, caring, presentable, creative, well educated, intelligent, positive about life, witty, sarcastic, humour loving,and enjoy traveling to different countries and cultures!
Kinky: Be open to wild exploration, have a passion for servitude, not just be sexually submissive, but emotionally and attitudinally as well.
I am looking for someone who is looking to spend a life with a Master/Dom, and who is prepared to advance conversations based on this ultimate goal. To be clear, I am not an extreme person: So if you've watched Life of O and fantasize about being objectified to the degree O was, forget about it. I expect you to be relatively sane :)
If you have been extremely depressed, have severe family problems, or enormous financial problems, please be upfront, but I doubt we can get into a serious relationship as it intrudes on your ability to be a "presentable and articulate servant".
I am attracted to thin girls-- skinny and juicy :) Long hair and cushioned lips are a bonuses.
Suggested reading for those new to BDSM:
Techniques of pleasure : BDSM and the circuits of sexuality
Margot Weiss
Safe, sane, and consensual : contemporary perspectives on sadomasochism
Darren Langdridge and Meg Barker
Situating Sadomasochism
D.Langdridge & M.Barker
The Cultural Formation of S/M: History and Analysis
K.Sisson
Themes of SM Expression
C.Moser & P.J.Kleinplatz
Is SM Pathological?
P.J.Kleinplatz & C.Moser
Speaking the Unspeakable: S/M and the Eroticisation of Pain
D.Langdridge
Spirituality and 'Transcendence'
A.Beckmann
Beyond Safety: Erotic Asphyxiation and the Limits of SM Discourse
L.Downing
Sexual Fantasies of S/M Practitioners: The Impact of Gender and S/M Role on Fantasy Content
M.R.Yost
SM and Sexual Freedom: A Life History
G.Denkinson
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