Collarspace.com

Looking for athletically fit, financially stable, no diseases, no drugs, non-smoker Dominant who has experience with a sub and wants real time for a monogamous, long term relationship with only me. I have little experience. To be clear, I am NOT a masochist and have limits (see profile on left). Important, no recent body, G-rated pic, no response from your email. I will delete them without reading without the pic. It's all about the mental connection, not the sex, but to get in my head as the Dominant and to know all about me, then I can please him. Also, if you're looking for a housekeeper/cook, that's not me. I am a sub, but not a domestic one. Please don't send me hate emails because of my preferences. Everyone, no matter what station in life, has preferences. I can't be around chemicals and such, but I do clean my own home have a very clean place and cook for myself..thank you. I've read quite a few profiles and the majority of "Doms", "Masters" want a live-in servant and only sex. Where is the mind control? Where is the taking care of his "sub", in all aspects of life? If there is someone like that and is disease/drug free, and under 55 y.o. and has a good build, let me know. I'm curious as to what is truly out there. Not looking for a roommate, but someone who has their own house, own finances, etc. Write a few emails w/ photos, then see you on a webcam, talk on the phone, then meet, within 2 weeks. If you can't do that, then please move on. I'm not here to play games. No exceptions to the above. Looking for someone in the Washington, DC area full-time or plan on moving here in the near future, meaning 3 or so months after initial conversation and be single, as well. A recent photo would get a reply too..thanks. I don't want a long distance relationship or a cyber one either. Last but not least, I've viewed I think the majority of profiles on here and the majority of men look creepy to me. They have this "crazed" look in their eye and look disheveled and just plain odd. Not to offend anyone, but this is very weird to me. Are there any Cary Grant's, meaning sophisticated out there or Denzel Washington types, meaning have an edge about them that isn't over-the top, that look normal??? Once I see that you send me an intial email with a recent, full G-rated body picture, I will return your email in kind. I will not respond to married men or any guy who is with someone in a relationship. I'm single, unattached and want you to be, as well. My demeanor here may sound harsh, but after dealing with flakes and fakes on this site, I know what I'm looking for and not willing to put up with any nonsense.
6/27/2011 6:32:13 PM

I've continued to read profiles and have had quite a few emails from men who "think" they are dominant but are really just wanting kinky sex without any type of getting to know a person and developing that trust.  I find that to be contrary to what D/s is meant to be, "mind control" not just a fling.  If that's what you want, then so be it, but don't bother legitimate people who want to establish a relationship with someone who is serious about getting to know them on a deeper level other than being lustful and kinky.  Buy a Playboy magazine or watch porn, but don't bother me with your sexual fantasies because most of the men on here are just that, fantasies or want to be in an online fantasy.  And, please, let me stress again, NO MARRIED MEN and NO MEN WITHOUT PICTURES otherwise a reply will not be given to you.

 

It makes a gal think that no one is listening or is just after their own gratification and not be interested in the other person's feeling/motivations.  Strange here.

5/28/2011 6:37:34 AM

It's interesting.  I've only been on here a few days, and I see so many fakes.  The men state they are in shape, but if you're 5'10" and weight 220 lbs., how is that ht/wt proportionate unless you're a body builder and most, of what I've seen are not.  Also, doubt they really read my profile either, because I specifically state what I'm looking for and when they email me they want to just "play"...pulease!

Need2ndMother
 
 Age: 20
  California