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| Hi,
I'm new to the area but not to BDSM, and am looking for an experienced play partner with similar interests.
I am a very experienced heavy masochist seeking a true sadist for exploration of pain, willpower, and endurance. No, I'm not going to claim I'm superman when it comes to taking pain. I'm actually rather frightened by pain, but when all things are said and done I'm told I can handle a lot more than most. When it comes to whips and floggers, my skin gives out before I do. Yes, I'm absolutely scared of your meanest toys, but at the same time I like a challenge.
I have ~15 years experience, and have extensive experience with flogging, whipping, and heavy bondage. Other interests are listed on my profile. At this point I hope to find someone similarly experienced who doesn't doesn't mess around and is very serious about dishing it out. Someone who can hurt me badly without disfiguring me, someone who genuinely loves to see tears and very real begging, and someone who is interested in walking the edge of what their partner can and does endure. Am particularly interested in extended scenes involving captivity, long slow suffering, heavy pain, and exhaustion. My idea of ideal aftercare is being hogtied and insulted; it's okay to take off the kid gloves.
I'm not specifically looking for a sexual partner, someone who just plain gets off on hurting a man is more than enough for me. With that said, I'm not opposed to being used sexually on another's terms, subject to negotiation. Regardless, I find that there is a pretty profound connection established between the person being beaten to the point of begging and the person whose deaf ears those blubbering pleas fall on. I'm hoping to find someone who feels similarly and values that connection.
I'm straight, I certainly prefer women, but am also amenable to play with an experienced man as well. Rather than lots of play partners, I'd rather find one trusted partner with whom to play repeatedly, learn each other, and continually push boundaries.
I have lots of my own gear as well as a place to play. While I'm happy to host, I don't want to play with those whose spouses or significant others are not aware and approving.
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