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UPDATE - like an idiot I selected Canada as my location. Please note I am NOT there. Based between Germany, UK and now Switzerland.
New to the site, not new to the lifestyle.

Since my first ever girlfriend handed me a riding crop to use on her when I was 16, I've been almost permanently in the D/s lifestyle. A few short breaks here and there, a small flirtation with Vanilla and also as a sub, I find myself back in the D/s lifestyle again and loving every minute.

I'm looking for play partners, and in the future the elusive "perfect" sub :o))) Or rather, somebody that I can transform into one.

I do have different wishes depending on what it is that I'm looking for. Play, and relationships do have different priorities....

Sometimes I am looking for a sub/slave to serve me, other times I am looking to exercise the sadistic side of my nature and I am looking for a masochist, or somebody who finds fulfilment in submitting herself to the sadistic side of her Dom.

For a relationship, the "wish list" changes slightly. I do not wish for a 24/7 TPE power exchange. There are times when it is nice to sit on the sofa with a glass of wine (or bottle :o)) to have a stimulating conversation. I also have a number of friends who know nothing about my BDSM lifestyle. Should you be a part of socialising with them, you must be able to act vanilla. However the power dynamic will always be there, and things could chance with a single glance.

I accomplished a lot in my life so far. I consider myself fairly successful, intelligent, well rounded and as such am often more comfortable around people older than myself. Don't get me wrong, I socialise a lot with younger people, and I'm hardly old myself, it's just the most fulfilling experiences and interactions I have had, are normally with people who have also had a large amount of experience.

In play, limits are always respected, however in a relationship, you should be prepared and indeed actually desire to have those limits expanded. Any good Dom will know the difference between pushing you slightly out of your comfort zone, and pushing you way beyond what you can cope with.

Limits that I have are pretty much the standard. Children, animals and anything unsafe. I will never cut or mark somebody that I am playing with. In a long term relationship, things might progress into slight body modification (branding, scarification etc), however that will only ever be done, after a lot of consultation with the sub/slave.

Depending on the level of the subs masochism, needle play is something that I enjoy. Yes it can lead to blood being present, so the utmost hygiene needs to be observed. In this day and age, one has to be very VERY careful when blood is involved.

I will never do anything unsafe or put a sub in harms way. A Dom must also protect his charges. Humiliation might be a part of any scene, however given the careers that most of us have, public humiliation will be something that will be discussed first.

Note - I do not enjoy scat at all. It will not be a part of any play. It can be used to good effect as a punishment (sub is not allowed to use the toilet etc), but it is not something I enjoy. Watersports however might be.

Pics uploaded and awaiting approval. Due to my job I will never publically expose my face. I will however provide pics of myself once we begin speaking.

Based in the UK, Germany and Switzerland. Not decided where I am going to base myself yet as I can work from all 3. I speak English and German.

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celline
 
 Age: 37
 Milwaukee, Wisconsin