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I am a strict, controlling,, no nonsense, disciplinarian dominant of over 9 years seeking a worthy submissive female who either classifies herself as sub (has choices and can say no) or as slave (without choices and is property to be treated as owner sees fit plus can never say no without major repercussions).I prefer a slave but will accept a sub if she is of the right frame of mind. Absolutely no one over 48 need apply as I prefer you look younger than me at all times as I look 10 years younger than I actually am - so yes I actually would prefer younger but old enough to know what they are actually asking for and getting into in a Master/slave or Dominant/sub relationship. I will not tolerate a woman who wants to dictate how I will take care of her needs - it is my job to find out what the actual needs you have are and fulfill them to the best of my ability. I do respect limits of subs but expect slaves to be willing to explore and expand - my limits are kids, animals, permanent harm or damage, scat and piss which are non-negotiable.
I am a college honors graduate who is also going back to school for his MBA who seeks a quality woman who is intellectually bright, knows what she needs in life, is height weight proportionate, can handle being around teens (yes they know my desires and needs in the lifestyle - yes I realize this is a deal breaker with most subs and slave), understands what it is like to be in a home or work in public, drug and disease free, non smoking or willing to quit, extremely sensual, a willing pleaser, a person that enjoys the simple things and wants to help build something special.
I have also owned and trained a slave twice plus had a sub - none of which are with me currently. I am single and want a full time live in domestic, sexual and activity (both vanilla and BDSM) willing female that desires building a relationship with a proper foundation of knowledge, honesty and trust.
I also enjoy outdoor bondage, public play, flogging, spanking, absolute control of your life, intellectual discourse, cages, cuffs, chains, collars, and much more so you must have a desire to explore and a willingness ot submit after learning my style and desires completely. I can be nice in public but prefer at home demeanor of strict, firm, and controlling. I also prefer (not an absolute for those who will be nit picking) a woman who is either bi or bi curious that is open to a second female around at least part of the time and I prefer a slave as opposed to a sub as I am extremely controlling.
I can and will get on a web cam and phone to prove myself not to mention meet in person in a public place so I expect the same of you - if you can not comply then it is doubtful we will be able to make something work. If you are one that wishes funds or help with relocation them the above is an absolute requirement as I follow the guidelines requested by this and other sites of not sending funds to a person I do not know and have not met in person so meeting in person before I allow you in my home is an absolute must for the safety of all that may be involved (if this is a problem with you then refrain from contacting me as I will not budge at all from this premise). Yes I prefer a person who needs and wants a place to be but it is my way or no way and that is not negotiable on any terms. If you are out to get something for nothing or money only then move on as I will delete you immediately from future contact if you tell me you are from the states and are in the UK or Africa for some reason (heard all the stories before and not tolerating them at all so move on).
I have been accused of being harsh and cruel and also of being to lenient and forgiving - yes I am caring and gentle but do not make the mistake that others have in thinking I am a push over and will not kick you out or turn you over to someone else to take care of (be that kicking you out or having you arrested). I do not tolerate abuse of any kind especially of any children you may have.
I will consider relocation but only under the following circumstances - I can find a suitable job, and you have a place big enough to handle me and 3 - 4 teens (ages 13 - 18). Relocation wil take time and would not happen until at least the Summer of 2011 at the earliest. This means that you must have a job and a large enough home for a family.
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The Dom should pay for everything?! This is an annoying statement, I am not particularly well off, I like to pay for drinks and to go to places however there is a growing number of submissive that think there submission is so special that a Dom should pay for everything and get a free ride out of it. This is ridicules, shivery is not dead by any means but two people working together as a team to get through life and help each other out needs to be the reality of it all. Some submissive have even gone as far as to say that a poor Dom is not a successful Dom and therefore a looser. There is of course the flip side to this, the domme that demands a tribute to dodge the tax man or whatever. If that is the case because you are a pro then fine but in the real world and what I mean by that is the world where two people live together or are in a long term relationship together then this is impractical, unless you are a millionaire of course. It’s about responsibility projection; it’s not what you feel someone owes you, more what someone has done for you that is important. In a relationship you need to be the answer to someone’s problems not contribute to them. |
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