I am not interested in long distance!

I've been reading sex stories for a long time, and the ones I like best have bondage in them.  I'm interested in seeing some real life stuff.  I am a bit shy, but willing to try/learn new stuff.    Discretion is a must.  I prefer not to meet one-on-one with someone I have not previously met in a group/couple.  I am not currently interested in sex.

Warning--I may be a masochist!  I like toys that sting.

I'm looking for someone to show me things.  I think I'd be more comfortable if it is NOT one-on-one.  I am also interested in bondage.