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Something that I learned, long ago...while involved in a complete D/s relationship for two years...
Though respect comes from both sides of the relationship, as well as trust; the Dominant one is not so completely Dominant. For it is the submissive one that *allows* and gives the Dominant one the power and control that they seek.
It is the submissive one that sets his/her limits, while the Dominant one respects, loves and cares enough for the submissive one, to want to attempt to push those limits in an effort to seek pleasure for their submissive, as well as for themself.
But ultimately, it is the submissive ones that have a safe word...not the Dominant one. It is the submissive one that has power and control to stop.
In my humble opinion, I feel that it is a true D/s relationship that includes communication on both side, and again a deep amount of respect and trust for each other.
A submissive may misbehave in an effort to get attention (yes, spank me when I'm bad...I probably deserve it, but more importantly, I want it! I want it because it makes *you* happy!) And my ultimate goal is to make *you* happy!
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