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*****UPDATE 01/28/2012******************************************** I recently ended a 5 year long relationship. We do still remain very close friends, its difficult at times but we are trying to maintain that close friendship. Neither of us are evil or bad people. It just didn't work between us. We would ask that all of our mutual friends show us both all the kindness, understanding and respect that they always have. *********************************************************************************** We now return to "As The Freak Flag Flies!" When we last left Freaky the date guy he was reading a letter from a Lady. When he got the end of the letter he was shocked to see what she had wrote. "I’ll continue to write you as long as I don’t find out about some sick fetish like you wear Footies pajamas..." She said. How did she know??? Was she stalking him??? Did she have a web cam set up in his house that he didn't know about??? Or could it just be a simple coincidence? He sat in front of the computer for a few minutes...pondering what to do. Then that inner voice told him, maybe its time to cut the Footies off, be a man & grow up, or it could have been his mother’s voice coming from the closet. With scissors in hand Freaky ran up the stairs with reckless abandon!!! Pulled out his brand new Darth Vader PJ's. Freaky stood there nervous, apprehensive about his decision... then with one cut an instantaneous rush of adrenalin came over him!!! He grabbed his Spidy underroos, cut them and then Batman, the Hulk, no footies were safe from the mad frenzy that had come over Freaky. The room filled up in no time with severed footies from all of his PJ's... Then with a earth shattering scream he yelled to the heavens..."TONIGHT I CAN SLEEP FREE OF MY CHILDHOOD FEAR OF MY FEET BEING COLD!!! Now where is my diaper & pacifier??? There once was a man from Nantucket who’s... ::::KNOCK KNOCK:::: Dude you can’t use a dirty limerick in your Profile!!! Why not it’s my profile??? Man you have to take this seriously, talk about your dreams, aspirations, wants and desires. You’re a great guy, not too many people have a personality like yours! Let me see the photos your thinking of posting... You're kidding... Is that 2 cars stuck in a tollbooth??? Is that a dog peeing on a Smart Car??? “Who ya calling???" The misses... I’m telling her to only send you one invitation for our Xmas party!!! Ok... now the real part...lol!!! Where to start... I guess a physical description could work... I am 6'6" tall and have an athletic build. Brown hair, blue eyes... Lots of friends describe me as the military type... I did spend 10 years in the Air Force. I am not your typical kind of guy. I am brutally honest... even if its not what you want to hear. I believe we are all physical sexual beings and I prefer to embrace these facts of life. I think both men and women have been socially brainwashed and therefore have some very unrealistic relationship expectations. I think that when little boys grow up they leave behind their unrealistic dreams of being an astronaut or race car driver and women should leave behind their unrealistic dreams of being Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty sitting around waiting for Prince Charming. Stop trying to live someone elses dreams and find what works for you and feels right for you... Stop worrying about what everyone thinks and live your life before you are too old to enjoy it! I am not monogamous, have never been, never will be. This does not mean in any way that I am a commitment-phoebe. It just means that I have come to the realization that monogamy does not exist from a scientific point of view and to hold on to those unrealistic stereotypes is not a healthy way to live in any relationship. Science and DNA fingerprinting has dis-proven all species of being monogamous with the exception on a parasitic worm that lives in the intestines of fish... when these two worms mate they actually fuse together into one body that is joined til death. mmmmm... romantic huh? I think not. As humans if we were truly monogamous we would all still be with our first sexual partner FOR LIFE! I don't know about you but when I think about my first sexual partner... well lets just say the worms sound more appealing. Humans have adopted a form of serial monogamy where they get rid of one partner in exchange for another. But due to social restraints things like open relationships and responsible non-monogamy is frowned upon. I consider myself polyamorous... if you don't know what that means... just google it. You can also try responsible non-monogamy. But basically it means being respectful of others wants, desires, and feelings while being open and honest in every way and not lying about your own feelings, wants and desires. This type of honesty I have found to bring relationships to a whole new level of trust and commitment. A pleasing environment that encourages trust and open communication in ways that you would never believe. If you have any questions at all... please feel free to ask... I am not offended or insulted easily and I am always up for chatting about any and all subjects. I am Open-Minded, Honest, and Sexual I spent 10 years in the Air Force... I have 3 AAS degrees and finished my BA in 2004. One of my AAS degrees in in Photography... its pretty much just a hobby now. I had my own studio for 4 years and loved it. Unfortunately it was tough being a starving artist... So now I work for the federal government helping disabled veterans.