First off, I'm a brat in a good way *there is such a thang, trust me I know for that is what I am at times*.

Second off you state in your profiles that you don't do drama, you don't like drama, and you will not associate with anyone who causes drama.  Your next paragraph begins with...so and so is not a true dominant, but of course you wouldn't dare dream of naming so and so totally you just allude to the name, or you name them either which way...face facts you are now guilty of drama, you are right in the middle of it so to speak.

One thing I learned many years ago, was this:  While you and I might not think so and so is a Dominant, who are we to judge them to be or not to be?  Perhaps their style is different then yours are mine, it does not take away from the fact that they just maybe a dominant.

Third...really?  there is no such thing as the perfect slave, submissive, bottom, or dominant.  Each person is unique, they are the best that they can be, but above all else they are human.  But none of us are perfect, we are just good at doing what we do best.

What's that saying don't judge a book by it's cover...how bout don't judge a dominant, or a submissive, or a bottom, or ::::shudder:::: heavens to bid...a switch by it's cover.