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Hetero Female Switch, 48,  Swink, Colorado
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goodsubinCO - Swink, Colorado

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 Female Switch



 5' 2"

 155 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:

 Horseback Riding (Expert)



 Anal Play


 Body Worship

 Massage (Getting)

 Public Play



 Country Music


 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Coffee Shops


 Flea Markets


 Renaissance Faires




 Breast Play





 Foot Worship

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Wax play

 1950s Household

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music


 Nineties Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Auto Racing


 Horse Racing


 Garage Sales




 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service


 Curious About:


 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater




 Corner Time

 Local BDSM Community





 Masks (On Partner)


 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial

 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation


 Theatrical Scenes



 Victorian Household


 Bar Hopping

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Gas Masks

 Medical Play

 Speech Restrictions



 Female Supremacy

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Low Carb








 Hard Limits:

 Canes and Crops



 Electrical Play

 Fire Play



 Knife Play

 Needle Play

Ok, guys here it is... I'm submissive to the right guy and Dominant to all others that tend to treat me like I'm stupid.  I've lost track of times I've rewritten this but maybe less is more?? I'm not into pain as I have health issues from a near fatal accident in 1997. I am more into the mental aspect of the lifestyle and having my clothes chosen for me, TIH, HOH etc    I don't  do cyber or long distance    Hope you all have a great day!   Sheryl    

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Journal Entries:
9/20/2016 11:17:04 AM
Is it too terrible to admit I need a spanking bad but can't find anyone to do it? I miss being touched and fucked feeling your cock deep in my pussy, ass, or mouth.  Knowing I have someone to ask advice from. Just the feeling of being cared about even if it's only because I serve you in all ways I can.......😢 Hope I find someone who wants a good girl that needs her Daddy's/Dom's guidance in my life. Guess I really need help I got three tickets the other night🙈😢

8/24/2016 3:50:12 AM
Where did all the good men go?  Not talking about lifestyle here but in general.  When I think back men weren't afraid to be manly they opened doors and held out chairs for their ladies. Along with walking on the street side of the sidewalk, always filled the gas on her car and opened and closed her car door. 

I I look around and see a bunch of guys with droopy pants on wanting their woman to look great 24/7 yet they can't be bothered to pull up their own pants🙈😕 makes me worry for our future. I wonder how many of these young men know where that style originated and it's true meaning? I do it originated in prisons and the droopy pants indicated you were open to homosexual sex or a rape I wonder how many once they learn the truth wont ever wear droopy pants again?  Every time I see a young man dressed like that I want to tell him the story and advise he pull his pants up... Guess I'm getting old🙈😕😐

8/24/2016 3:39:10 AM
This stinks ppl say one thing then do another. I really hate that!  I was raised that the only thing of value you had was your WORD!! When I give my word I do everything humanly possible to live up to it even if I get scared or don't really want to go thru with hosting dinner anymore I still do it and try to make the best of a bad situation

8/23/2016 2:25:36 AM
Inner Thoughts 

things to get rid of nervous energy 
1. Shower
2. Change the sheets
3. Wash the dog
4. Pick up the house the bit I can
5. Watch scary tv shows that make me scared more than I want to admit 
6. Shower again put too much perfume on darn it 🙈
7. How does anyone meet the first time without having a heart attack I wonder when the time comes to meet my guy?? Just thinking about it and I'm all anxious🙈😂

maybe be watching unsolved mysteries and forensic files was a bad choice of television lately?? 

7/4/2016 8:10:59 AM
Weird it's showing today as still in June??

7/4/2016 7:55:03 AM
Happy Independence Day!! As we mark another Independence day I think about all those brave guys that have paid the ultimate price for our freedoms and I thank them. 😘😇

6/26/2016 4:02:43 AM
Heard someone describe themselves as butterscotch swirl kinda describes me a bit twisted a bit vanilla from the looks to the outside world but innerly I have a desire to enjoy all the taboo things that normal vanillas would find disturbing I think. 

4/5/2015 6:39:20 PM
Was reading thru some people's profiles... smh... expert at everything.. REALLY?  one person had hair pulling as something he was expert at.  Guess I am too, every time I brush my hair it pulls and I yelp.  OMG.... too much time on here.  I do believe it may be time for a short break...

2/28/2015 9:33:45 AM
Just so everyone knows right away I am both a christian, and conservative.  And I believe in the right to bear arms, and I'm pro life. Not a pro-abortion believer.  I believe it's God's natural order for Men to be the leaders of their homes and their women.

I have a question, if you are unemployed, live with family members and don't drive, how can you consider yourself Dominant of anything?   I keep getting contacted that have zero income, or live with multiple family members so they don't have to pay their fair share, and believe this or not don't own a single vehicle.  So, while I have an income, a home to myself, and a nicely kept car, how do you think I could respect you enough to allow you to become my Dom? 

I'm not asking for the moon here... Just have a reliable source of income,  a home to yourself, I don't care if it's an apartment or townhouse, or a single family dwelling,  and if you have a nice truck I've been known to drool over the truck... And at least you would get a quicker response.


8/25/2014 10:31:59 AM
                                                 Dreams   2

Ever have a dream so vivid that as you slowly come to wakefulness you are so very sure that the "dream" actually happened?  That is what I experienced the other morning.  As I laid in my bed, with my eyes closed, I could smell your scent on my body and sighed a sigh of happiness.  I could hear your light snoring next to me.  My body felt all warm and tingly in a good way. I reached out next to me touch you only finding an empty mattress where I was sure you would be.  The light snoring was actually coming from the foot of my bed, where my dog slept soundly.  Still sure you were here I could smell the coffee brewing in the kitchen and as I slowly climb out of bed to go and greet  you in the kitchen my body is slow moving this morning.  Like we had played for the hours that we usually do when we are together, minor aches and pains run from my wrists to my ankles my pussy feels well used. I look down and I can barely make out the love nips you left on my tits. I smile remembering them.  As I put on my nightie and head out into the kitchen fully expecting to find you sitting there having your morning cup of coffee with milk but no sugar.  Imagine my surprise to find the kitchen spotless, not a dish or cup out of place. And no coffee either.  As I walk thru my home it slowly dawns on me that everything that moments ago I was sure had occurred was in actuality just a dream, or maybe a longing for you to be here with me. To the point where I had dreamed so vividly that it made me believe that you were actually here with me.  I start the coffee, and sit down to wait for it to brew as I wait I try to figure out what is fact and what is fantasy. I sigh as I close my eyes and can almost feel your fingers rubbing my back like only you know where and how I enjoy being touched. The coffee pot makes it's beeping noise telling me that it's done brewing yanking me out of my head.  Slowly I arise to begin another day without you beside me. I try to be happy but it's like the sun in my life has disappeared.  Checking my cell phone, I guess we must be thinking about each other for there is a message from you saying only  "Sweetpea, I love you and can't stop thinking of you and having you within my arms!"  Sinking into the chair I smile because at least I am not the only one thinking of our time together.  Closing my eyes I try to think about how I will try to put a smile on your face today while we are apart.  Getting up and pouring my cup of coffee, black with plenty of sugar for me.  My mind is on you and without realizing it I pour your cup of coffee and don't even realize that I have done it until I have added the milk.  Sighing I throw that coffee away.  And go get dressed for the day after I take my shower. 

Until later,

7/25/2014 2:07:01 AM

Love is not finding the person you can live with, it's finding the ONE you can't LIVE WITHOUT. 

7/25/2014 1:58:42 AM
To  understand a woman’s heart.... When she stares at your mouth [ Kiss her ] When she's quiet [ Ask her whats wrong ] When she ignores you [ Give her your attention ] When she pulls away [ Pull her back ] When you see her at her worst [ Tell her she's beautiful ] When you see her start crying [Just hold her and don't say a word ] When you see her walking [ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ] When she's scared [ Protect her ] When she steals your favorite hat [ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night ] When she teases you [ Tease her back and make her laugh ] When she doesn't answer for a long time [ reassure her that everything is okay ] When she looks at you with doubt [ Back yourself up ] When she says that she likes you [she really does more than you can understand] When she grabs at your hands [ Hold her's and play with her fingers ] When she bumps into you; [ bump into her back and make her laugh ] When she tells you a secret [ keep it safe and untold ] When she looks at you in your eyes [ don't look away until she does ] When she says it's over [ she still wants you to be hers ] When she re-posts this bulletin [ she wants you to read it ] - Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything - When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go - When she says she's ok, don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you - Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her -Treat her like she's all that matters to you. - Stay up all night with her when she's sick. - Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid - Give her the world. - Let her wear your clothes -When she's bored and sad, hang out with her - Let her know she's important. - Don't talk about other girls around her - Kiss her in the pouring rain  
- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is; 'Whose ass am I kicking baby

6/29/2014 9:32:28 PM

The Smile


came to me as I thought of you,

a random, fleeting thought

of your voice, the feel of you

in my embrace.

I thought of you today, a

thought quick as a moment

with the feel of a lifetime.

I thought of you,

and I smiled.

6/25/2014 2:32:22 PM
palm to face moment... omg.. have laughed for awhile.. looked up the defintion of dork... No wonder the geek squad guys got offended when i referred to them as the Dork Dudes..

6/24/2014 8:33:28 AM
Credit goes to Rhdsklr... love the pic and the saying.. it says..  "I'm not only putting on my big girl panties.  I'm putting on my bitch bra, my shit kicking boots and spiked leather belt with the fuck you buckle.  So don't tell me to "Deal with it!"  I got this shit covered."  cracked me up.. almost fell off the couch laughing...   too funny.... :-) 

Just wondering.. if YOU have to actually tell me that you are the Dom or Alpha, something is seriously wrong....just sayin' 

6/23/2014 4:17:23 AM
Just wondering why all the smart and intelligent Doms can't figure out how to rotate their pics?  I am not tech savy but last i checked it was something you could do... got any idea how hard it is to pick up my monitor and hold it sideways.... giggles.... Another thought after a night without sleep.. what is up with ya'll and motorcycles.. mid-life crisis or what? Please don't get me wrong, bikes are great.. But now a guy standing next to a beautiful horse will really get my attention, as I am a former Barrel Racer.. or even a nice BIG truck, now that is something that will make my jaw drop and drool...<smiles> As us Barrel Racers say "Turn and Burn, Baby!"
Until later,


6/1/2014 4:48:52 PM



I awoke today and can't get this dream out of my head, it seems like it really happened and isn't a dream at all.


I come to wakefulness slowly, feeling my wrists bound to each side corner of the top of the mattress,  as I feel each ankle tied to the bottom edges of the bed leaving me spread eagled. I try to look around but I am blindfolded.  When I try to listen all I hear is Pandora playing on my earbuds in my ears.  Slowly I take inventory of the rest of my body.  I am nude, the sun is shining on my body making me feel nice and warm instead of a bit cool. I lean my head back and sigh with pleasure.  As I lay there tied down thoughts begin to run thru my head, wondering what he is going to do with his new toy tied up and not able to struggle to get away from the sensations.  I can feel my pussy get wetter and wetter with each passing minute that seems like hours.  Listening to Pandora my mind is busy listening to the music, slowly I feel the mattress dip just a little bit and my thigh is lightly brushed by his hand.  He walks up to my head and slips out an ear bud and whispers into my ear "Now, be a good little girl, and if you are I will make you very happy" with that he replaces the earbud. He begins to massage the knots out of my muscles from being tied in this position for what seems to be for hours.  Making sure that he never touches my pussy until I am close to tears with wanting him to touch me there.  Finally he touches me there and much to my surprise he inserts a vibrating egg deep inside me. He rolls me over and inserts a butt plug, talk about a cold invasion. He seats it deeply into my ass, then has me lay back down..And again I believe I am left alone to contimplate what will he ever do to me when he gets back.  I am left alone for what seems like another life time, when he returns I feel him place an anklet around my right ankle, and a chain around my waist.  These are gifts from him. Ones that I can wear in the vanilla world and no one but the two of us know the true meaning of this jewlery.

5/30/2014 3:48:37 PM

Please be emotionally, physically, and financially stable..  Just because I am a sub doesn't mean that I can afford to pay for your bills as well as mine.  I survive on disability so there isn't a whole lot of money to pay for my bills. let alone someone elses. 

4/13/2014 10:35:23 AM

call me weird but the words female dominate or male submissive feels like an oxymoron to me... am i the only one that understands traditional values?

4/12/2014 7:21:11 PM

this is what i want in my life,  Thank you Badboy1000 for this below

For the doms who think Badboy doesn't know the first thing about being a dom i can assure you all that it's actually the opposite, men like him value their women and can get more from their women with a look and maybe a raised eyebrow than the rest of the doms can with all their canes, crops and whips, for it is only like men like this that we can embrace our submissivness, believe me, i would gladly become his sub.. and to be treated as such, there is not a thing in this world i would deny him...for he has discovered the key to quality submissive's like me...

     In return you get a man who cherishes and adores you. I speak highly of you to other people. I am very much a gentleman to you (and I do mean GENTLE). You will feel protected. If anyone ever speaks ugly to you I will immediately come to your defense. I will never let you walk on the street side of the sidewalk. I will never let you lift any heavy bags. When we enter a room together, I open the door, put my hand on the small of your back and let you enter first. If we go to a crowded venue and there is only one seat, clearly YOU sit while I stand.Where are all the gentlemen who cherish their women?

     Here are my mottos in life don't worry about what has happened or what will happen in the future, yesterday is the past and history, and tomorrow we don't know what will happen then, the only day we need to worry about is today because it is the present and the one day you have control over, so CARPE DIEM'  or translated "SEIZE THE DAY"

     Another guote i like is from M. Monroe  "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve the best of me"  or something like that...



4/12/2014 5:51:03 PM

Maybe i am weird, but i want my guy to do things like treat me like a lady, when i think back my grandfather would open doors for grandma, and when they walked, he would put his hand in the small of her back, he never allowed her to walk on the street side of the sidewalk, when out, he would ask her order, then place the order.  he always drove, not because she couldn't but because he cherished her. he made sure her car was always full of gas, and the fluids were clean and full.  It is grandma who's advice that i follow, it doesn't matter what he asks you the answer should never be no... <vanilla wise> lol


Am i weird to want these simple things?


I went on a date a couple months ago, and i can tell you if i got asked one more time where did i want to eat i was going to lose it.  I want a man, who will walk in the door and say hun, grab your coat we are going out to eat... I don't need to be asked 100+ times, or surprise me with something YOU wish to see me in... when i find it laid out on the bed.  I am very mental, so if you can get into my brain, you get into my heart, and body...



4/12/2014 4:54:10 PM

Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it... so true.

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