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We're a kinky triad exploring BDSM with each other, and if our search here goes well, hopefully with other people as well. We're always looking for good students to teach, and we enjoy learning from others as well. There's always more to learn and do. I'm the female head of the household. I'm exclusively the Mistress/domme within my household. I do bottom at times to a select few for certain kinks, but I don't have any interest in submitting to anyone. D/s isn't a mandatory part of all of my relationships, though as a general guideline a committed live-in relationship with me is going to have a D/s component to it. My more casual relationships may or may not include D/s, depending on our mutual interests, kinks, and chemistry. I listed my male partner as bisexual, though that's more my choice than his. I would like to arrange for him to get more sexual experience with other males, dom, switch, or sub, so bisexual and gay men are welcome to introduce themselves and we can see if I'm willing to share him with you. I'm also happy to talk with other doms and dommes with sub or slave males who would like to arrange for our boys to play together. My partner and I have a cuckolding dynamic, so his sex life is mostly going to focus on other males, though I'm interested in both men and women for myself. My partner would mainly bottom unless the other male was submissive like he is, in which case everything is fair game. I would probably allow him to lick other women and get pegged, but other than that any sexual interactions between my partner and other women are unlikely, except perhaps for a rare handjob if he's been an exceptionally good boy. I'm quite willing to share him with other women for bondage, pain, and other BDSM activities though. I also have a young female slave who recently joined my household, and we're all living together now. She's a naturally submissive girl and quite a lot of fun to be around. Her training is going quite well if I do say so myself. :) I'm interested in acquiring other subs or slaves, both male and female, though I'm also interested in meeting dominant men and women, as well as femdom, maledom, or dom/domme couples. I'm always happy to learn from other dominants, and sharing our subs/slaves with each other is also a possibility, assuming boundaries are respected. I can imagine hooking up with another couple if we all get along well, either temporarily or permanently. I'm especially interested in meeting female subs and slaves who are interested in lactation, fisting, large object insertion, facials/bukkake, and extensive sexual use, though I'm not obsessed with those activities and I don't view them as requirements, they're just kinks I'd like to pursue with women who share those interests. I'd be very interested in meeting maledom/femsub couples who are interested in cuckqueaning. I think it would be delightful to cuckquean a dom's wife and cuckold my boy at the same time. I'd also be very interested in meeting sub/sub or switch/sub cuckold couples who are looking for a domme/Mistress. The more submissive you are, the better. ;)

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8/9/2017 2:59:33 PM
And now they've broken the site again and I can't send mail.  After I do the captcha it claims I'm not logged in, despite the fact that I'm still logged in and can do anything other than send mail.

If you're expecting mail, you'll have to wait until they fix the site.

12/6/2016 8:12:53 AM
People sometimes ask about the difference between being my slave and being my sub.  There are no agreed-upon definitions for slave as far as I can tell, so it's a fair question. 

In my view, subs are people who submit to me at times, usually in a kink context, though sometimes in some aspects of vanilla life as well, such as service subs who like to come over and wash dishes.  It's typically part-time submission, covers only certain aspects of life, and usually isn't a live-in relationship.

Slavery is a more serious form of submission.  It's a greater transfer of power and responsibility to me.  My slaves commit to submitting to me in all or almost all aspects of their lives (with some things perhaps negotiated out), and in turn I commit to taking good care of them and living up to the responsibility of being a good slave owner.  It's typically a live-in role, and full-time in the sense that I always have authority over a slave, even if I'm not choosing to exercise control at a particular moment.  In practice, I delegate many decisions back to a slave most of the time, since micromanagement isn't fun for me or for most slaves, but I always have the right to make any decision.

The topic can be discussed in more detail if we're mutually interested in each other.

1/19/2016 2:57:41 PM
Subs and slaves who are interested in serving me really need to either be local or willing to relocate and become local.  I'm not interested in doing any on-line play, and I'm not interested in relationships that involve long distances for more than a few months.

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holes4xx
 
 Age: 19
  Idaho