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| I am looking for a long term Female Lead Relationship. I am an alpha male by nature and a successful business man. Most of my friends would describe me as a man's man. I am a rugged outdoorsman who is full of adventure and loves to explore and see and experience new things and new places. I am well educated and well traveled. I am also a gentleman and know how to treat a lady right. I can go from jeans or hiking shorts to a suit or tux if the occassion calls for it or I can be naked and on my knees if you call for it.
I lead a very rich vanilla life. I love the outdoors and spend a lot of my free time hiking, rafting, camping, golfing, fishing, viewing and photographing wildlife, kayaking, and exploring Glacier National Park. I also enjoy cultural things and try to balance them with the outdoors. Museums, historical places, art shows, theater productions, movies, art walks and all the local events in the Flathead valley keep me pretty busy. Ideally I am looking for a female that also likes to do those things and enjoys being out and experiencing what the vanilla world has to offer.
For many years now I have had a stong desire to be submissive which is the exact opposite of my alpha role. I have tried to repress this submissive side but have come to realize that it is such a major part of me that it needs to come out. When I am in the presence of a strong, secure and dominant female there is some switch inside of me that just turns on and all I want to do is serve her and be as pleasing as I can be. I almost feel that it is some genetic marker that responds to the vibrations that a strong female presence commands. In the presence of a dominant female I sometimes feel like I am that inner child that needs to be guided, trained, and disciplined so that I am placed in her complete control and submissive to her wants, needs, and desires.
Having two opposing sides is not easy to handle and thats why it is important to me to find a female that not only desires a submissve partner in her life but can also appreciate and guide us into a rich and satisfying vanalia world. I realize that she will set the tone for my behavior in the vanilla world as well. Although I don't understand why there is something inside of me that has a need for some public humilation so that the alpha male side of me is kept in check.
I am serious about being in a long term relationship and know that for it to work for me I need to have a female that desires complete control. That doesn't mean that we won't laugh and talk and do "normal things" because that is what life is about but what it means to me is that she will have certain expectations that always need to be met and she will expect me to met those expectations and serve her needs or else she will without hesitation give me the discipline she feels that I need to bring me back into line.
I realize that by entering into a D&S realtionship that I will belong to you and you may use me and my body in any way that you choose. I know many of you have a sadistic side to you and I understand that I may feel the pain of your pleasure but I also know that many of you have a maternal side to you that can be naturing and provide the nesessary discipline I need to make me more attentive to your needs.
I am open to all situations and expectations but we also have to have some chemistry and an attraction to each other. If you are into the outdoors and being active but also like cutural things and have a strong desire to have a good man under your guidance and control then please let me know. Thank you in advance for your consideration.
Take care,
Joe
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