I have found someone or should I say I have been found.

Thanks everyone, for your letters and interest.  If I did not get back to you it was only because of time.  I do appreciate your letter and the time it took you to write it.

All the best in finding what you need.

Sarah

I don't think strict, demanding, stern and firm and all those other adjectives used are what dominance is about.  That might be just me, but if I put  in my profile that it's not what I am after, why write to me telling me your are  strict,  demaning and stern....the mysteries never end.

I want to thank everyone whose made some comments about why we get the kind of mail we get. There have been some great letters and I've really enjoyed them so I am glad I made my post.

I have to say that the quality of mail is worse than I could have ever imagined.  I don't know why.  A lot of men use the word intelligent in their profile, but they don't show it in their letters.  It's all about floggers and being strict to them. 

I'm surprised.