I won't respond to a message that appears to be copy and pasted to me. Don't contact me to be rude, I'm not desperate and won't tolerate being mistreated. Being bullied into chatting isn't gonna work. Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I'm here for just anyone to use (in a manner of speaking). ________________________________ I am a fun loving girl with alot of great times to be had. Yes I am widowed at a young age so I've been forced to grow up in a sense. My husband taught me many things that are irrelevant to you but make me who I am. Lately I have questioned my want to be in the lifestyle... because of it's misuse to abuse and use women. I do know I love being submissive once I'm in the bedroom but I am responsible and independent outside the bedroom. ________________________________ UPDATE: My husband recently passed away on 3/16/08, he fought a long hard battle against cancer and will always be admired for his strength and peace through life and death. ___________________________________ UPDATE: I am in medical school and loving it! I graduate in July and maintain a 4.0. I am doing great with school and focusing on it mainly. I do find plenty of time for my friends though! __________________________________UPDATE: I graduated in 06/2009 and work in the medical field. __________________________________UPDATE: 2012 I enter this new year 118lbs smaller. Healthier, running 2 miles 3 times a week. Working 2 jobs as a home health aid/companion and nurse in a clinic. I love what I do and am glad to have done so well lately. I bought a new scion. I don't use the site much but I am around for friends. __________________________________UPDATE: March 2014 - I am married again and expecting my first child in June 2014. I am very excited. I'm back in school to further my education. I am focused on my life with my husband and child. I am only looking for friends and fun.
