The only thing that stays the same is that things always change -- i'm back to being single. me: kind, loving, service-oriented, sane, a good person You: Assertive Alpha Male, aggressive, confident, "got it together" guy Looking for: LT D/s bdsm relationship + all the mainstream relationship stuff too. A man to serve, care for, cater to, look up to, respect, admire, have fun with Not looking for: a poly situation of any kind, serving a married man, casual play, drama This hasn't changed: New friends always welcome!
1/2/2012 9:31:35 AM
i didn't write this, but it spoke to me:
A pocket full of pretty stones. To a casual observer they all looked the same. To Her, each a memory... a place, a morning, or a smile. At one time, cherished... but burdensome now.
She empties her pocket and ponders, "...which to keep and which to let go?".
I've been tossed back into the water with a PLINK or maybe a PLUNK! All we had shared transformed into ripples of expanding rings... fading to nothing in the current.
Ironically, I rejoice.
She'll have room for new stones. "Sparklier" than I ever was. Moments that awe and amaze beyond possible. Perhaps, one will be her "bestest" to be kept and cherished forever. Plink-proof. Plunk-less.
As the cool water tumbles me along, I contemplate my fate.
They say the true colors of a stone are revealed only when wet. Others reveal their beauty and value when broken open.
Perhaps... someone will bend down to revel at the smoothness of my surface... worn by the hardness of this life? Perhaps... her knowing eye will ponder over the beauty within?
I long for the warm and quiet intimacy of a pocket again... to be Cherished once again.
7/11/2010 9:03:19 AM
"Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself." Anais Nin
5/26/2010 8:01:16 PM
i just love this...what a wonderful set of guidelines for a submissive who strives to care for the Man that owns her!
“The Good Wife’s Guide” from Housekeeping Monthly - May 13, 1955
Have dinner ready. Plan
ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for
his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking
about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they
come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish)
is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15
minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your
make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been
with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little
more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is
to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make
one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband
arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the
year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your
husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will
give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you
with immense personal satisfaction.
Minimize all noise. At the
time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum.
Encourage the children to be quiet.
Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile
and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a
dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not
the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more
important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never
complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner or other places of
entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain
and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal: To try and make
sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquility where your
husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don’t greet him with complaints
and problems.
Make him comfortable. Have
him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom.
Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
Arrange his pillow and offer
to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
Don’t ask him questions about
his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the
master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with
fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
A good wife always
knows her place.
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