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This isn't going to be the norm here. I'm hoping to
find a lasting relationship based on shared interests,
common values, respect, friendship and
love...eventually leading to a 1950's style marriage.
Within this relationship there should be the element
of domestic discipline, ABF, and very defined roles
for us both. I believe that a woman should be the
authority in the home and the man supportive and
nurturing. In my mind, this is the nature of woman
and man and any other hierarchy is simply not
healthy for a relationship or family.
Do you imagine a life with a man who stays at
home to take care of you, your home, the minutia
and details of your daily life? One who will give up
her career to do this so that the free time you have
will be spent enjoying each other and not
completing chores and errands? Do you think of
coming home each evening to an orderly and well
run home and a fine dinner prepared? Do you want
to relax under the attention and ministrations of a
man who isn't too exhausted from her day to give
you the attention you desire and deserve?
Are you strong enough to earn my respect? To tell
me when I'm wrong? To mete out appropropriate
discipline to ensure order in our home?
Would you be my best friend...could I tell you my
secrets? Could you be the authority...determine
reasonable expectations...ensure they are met?
I am a Christian and my political leanings are
conservative.I am not politically correct. And
although I am soft-spoken and my nature is gentle,
I am very firm in my beliefs and my knowledge of
what I know is best for me. I am, however, weak
in my resolve and there are times when I very
much need someone stronger than myself to set me
straight again. Could it be you?
I need very much to feel, smell, taste and touch my
woman. I also need to get to know him well...that
means considerable time spent together, both good
and bad, to determine his character...to know how
he handles things...how he handles me. I don't
believe this can be accomplished via the occasional
weekend here and there. We are at our best on
these occasions, the little idiosyncracies do not
surface, irritation is at bay. We are in a honeymoon
period and never know each other in times of
stress, grief, exhaustion. Consequently, I'm afraid
you must either be local to me, or able to travel
VERY frequently. I have a career and have to
travel some... my free time is extremely limited. Its
important that we be able to take advantage of
that free time until we determine that the time I put
into my career....is better spent on you.
If any of the above strikes a chord with you...if
what I'm looking for resonates in your mind...if it
seems to you the way a relationship between a
woman and man should be...please do write and let
me know.
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