is there a way to block men from viewing your own profile? It gives me the creeps when I see that men have viewed my profile.

Happy Holidays to all. I will be spending a little time in Scottsdale Arizona with my cousin who is now dealing with uncurable cancer. It makes me feel very happy and lucky to have good health.

The holiday season comes upon us so fast and I want to wish all the kind Femdoms here who write to me now and then a very loving, kinky and happy Christmas and New Years in all ways.

Be safe, compassionate and kind

fred

I guess Murphy's law also applies here. I have read so many beautiful profiles, ones that make me weak in the knees and we begin to chat, write, and then it just seems to fade away so easily. I am still hopefull, as there are a few really great women here who check my profile often and that gives me some hope.

Am I wrong to think that if a person keeps looking at your profile, that there is some interest?

at least I know what I want for Christmas(hannukah for me)... and I hope she finds me so we can start the new year in style as a couple.

IF ANYONE KNOWS OF SOME FUN PARTIES, i would be happy to enjoy meeting some new people and would be happy to go to an event as well and share in the experience

I'm hoping my amazing tenants at my house in Asheville NC will send me some photos of the beautiful fall colors before they are all gone. I miss that... but I am happy to be in the warm california sunshine

fred

I am feeling like maybe I should just put my profile on hold for a while-- not delete it-  but not pay attention for a while--take a break- I notice people do that for a while..if someone in the los angeles area knows of some upcoming parties or munches or fun events for a single person in my age range, i would welcome the information.

thanks and happy tricks and treats this weekend-be safe to all

fred

i had the most startling morning wake up dream i can really remember in a while, mostly because it was about something i have never done..... i woke up startled as in the last seconds of my dream i was there lying on by bed with a light skinned woman squatting over me,  shooting a clear stream onto me as i lay there and wake up drinking it

it is hard for me to get over this dream... and even though it does not bother me in one way-- i would be afraid for anyone i know to know i had this dream or fantasy sequence that showed up in a dream.

Every time I read in a Domina's profile the feeling she gets when she sees the reaction and feels the reaction and change in her submissive as he gets used to longer periods of chastity is always remarkable for me to read and makes me wish it was me learning and having this experience.

I am going to sart today-- with my own self induced mental chastity and see how far i can go and what kind of limits in touching i can place on myself.

I'm looking forward to so many things now....

it's been very nice talking to the kind and intelligent people here who take time to explain things from their point of view without being judgemental.

I love the power of words and how people express the feelings and desires they have. The words mean a lot to me, as that is all we have to go on until we meet in person.

I will take a chance---

i will follow my dreams and my heart.

it is the only way I can be

Limits exist only in the mind and fall away as trust replaces fear and uncertainty.

I believe in this entirely.

I do seek a cuckold experience when i am in my long term and Female Led Relationship. For me, It is much more about knowing i am loved and cherished and i am in love and cherish my Femdom, and know and value both her desire to keep me chaste for periods of time and for her ability to meet her desires with other men, in areas i can not give her the same pleasure. I will love her finding such happiness and enjoy being part of it...but want nothing to do with the kind of Domina who just wants to see her submissive on his knees with a line of BBC ahead of him to polish off with the sole purpose being her amusement. I do not think people are born to be used for other's amusement. now for her pleasure- another story altogether-lol-

thanks-- have a great day-

Food for thought day

One of the more interesting aspects of looking for a partner, lover, friend to share and evolve with in this lifestyle choioce, for me, is that I often find my attraction becomes rooted to what the other person- ( for me- Domina) wants in her submissive and the activities she lists and talks about as being most important to her.  When all those things seem to match up, i find that the Outward appearance becomes less and less important. and that is a good thing--

 the next interesting thing will be when (hopefully) i get presented with an offer to come meet someone or to begin as Her submissive and i have to answer yes or no and either go after what i really want and be brave enough to do it- or be left unfulfilled with only my wants and needs and my profile.

 these profiles mean nothing if there is no truth behind them and no honest desire to find what you say you are seeking.

 have a great day and weekend...

fred