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rdesiresdom
I am a dominant man and have been in this lifestyle on and off for the last 15 years. I keep both my BDSM and vanilla life very separate and I am presently looking for a submissive woman who is able to be both a kinky AND vanilla partner. One wouldn't think this would be so hard to find, but it is. A healthy relationship at home with a woman who craves submission and is also someone I could take to a black tie function would be an ideal partner for me. I need someone who is comfortable in both situations. The fostering of a relationship between a dominant and submissive is a process and such a situation takes time to develop. It is for this reason (and the sake of just plain safety) that I must meet someone a number of times in a public place before I will ever invite her to my home go to hers. This only serves to benefit us both. If such a practice sounds disagreeable to you, you are something tragic waiting to happen. There are many concerns that would occur to the mind of any woman reading my profile, so I will address as many of them here as I can think of. Yes, I am a decent looking man. I am a professional with a white-collar career (no pun intended). I own my own home, live alone, and I do not live in a hovel. I am not married or seriously involved. I do not have children.
I am not a liar. I am 100% D/D free.
If you are looking for someone who will beat you to the point of drawing blood or leaving scars, you will not get that from me. I punish selectively and for good reason, but I do not derive pleasure from causing injury. I am a dominant, not a sadist. My sub would be the most precious thing in my life and I would no sooner mark her body than deface an artwork or key my own car.

I am very private and sensitive to the privacy of others. If there is anything else you would like to know, I will answer any question you have. I do not post a picture because I need to protect my privacy, not because I am insecure or deceptive. I will be happy to share photos with any woman I meet on here.