After reading a couple of the profiles here, I'm not 100% sure if this is the place for me. It seems that a number of people on here are simply looking to jump in bed with someone as soon as possible. I, however, am looking for something that will hopefully be a bit more long term. That being said I might as well give this a shot.
As far as a basic description of myself, I'm not exactly what people expect. I work as a programmer, I'm constantly learning new things so my nose tends to be in a book in my free time, I tend to be quiet, like rather geeky things like video games, etc. When you add it all up, people tend to look at me and see your average computer nerd. In some ways that fits quite well but when you learn that there is a bit more depth there. For instance, I love the outdoors (I actually enjoy spending time in the sun), swimming, hiking, etc. I run a couple of miles every day. I have my own place (I do not live in my parents' basement). I read for fun, I enjoy movies of all types (including foreign, independent, action, comedy, etc.), I prefer music that has blues influences (but listen to a wide range of music), etc. On top of that I can actually speak to women without any issues (and look them in the eyes when doing so). Oh and while I'm quiet, it's because I prefer my words to have more of an impact than to simply fill the world with pointless chatter. Plus I find that in meetings or at parties if you're just quiet enough, people tend to give away their secrets (it's amazing what some people have told me over the years).
Very few people learn anything about me other than the computer nerd part. On top of that those that learn about me as a person, even fewer learn of my more dominant side. In fact I would say that only a handful of women have ever gotten that close to me. Even though the number of women has been small, I've been a Dom for about 10 years now (I prefer any relationship that I have that contains D/s aspects be long term). As far as the style that I go with, it sort of depends on the woman that I'm with. I've been in relationships that have more of the daddy Dom aspects where I simply want to protect her, I've been in some that are closer to the 1950s household style, and I've been in some where I controlled most aspects of her life (picking out clothes to wear, etc.). It sort of depended on the needs of the woman as to how I approached the relationship but in all cases I was the dominant one (I'm not a big fan of switching or at least haven't found a woman yet that I was interested in doing that with). I guess the best way to describe it is no matter the actual dynamic, deep down I'm the type of man that will tear your clothes off, throw you on the bed, and have his way with you.
I'm not a big fan of discussing sexual aspects of a relationship prior to there actually being some sort of contact but I guess, considering the site, I should touch on the topic a bit. I don't really have any fetishes that I require in a relationship, but most of the ones listed on the site I've tried at least once in the past. I mean I have a list of things that turn me on, but nothing that's required for me to be sexually interested (the woman that I'm with is much more important than the actual activity). I have probably the same taboo list as most individuals here (no children, animals, etc). If you want anything more specific, please get to know me.
As far as what I'm looking for, I don't really have a type. Well, I guess that's not true. I'm only interested in women, first off. On top of that you must be nice, have a sense of humor, and generally be able to have a conversation that involves some actual thought. Personally a woman who can actually think and isn't afraid to show it is a sexy thing. So if you're looking to be the dumb bimbo on someone's arm, I am not a match for you. If you're instead looking to be the intelligent, sexy woman that I can be proud to have on my arm, then we might be a match. As far as looks are concerned, obviously I need to be attracted to you. However I tend to be attracted to women of all types (curvy, slim, etc.). It really just sort of depends. Race is more or less a non issue. Age, also, isn't much of an issue. Obviously you need to be legal but I've dated women older and younger than myself in the past. So basically what this entire paragraph boils down to is as long as you're an intelligent woman with a sense of humor, feel free to contact me.
Anyway, I work for a fairly conservative company which is why I'm not uploading images directly into my profile. I do however have pictures if you would like to see them. All you need to do is ask.
