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Hetero Male Submissive, 54,  Reading, United Kingdom
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Looks like my profile is always going to be a work in progress Smile

Hi, my name's Gary, living in England. I'm 54 & work in wholesale. I'm a musician & play locally in pubs & clubs. I enjoy reading the Tarot, read vociferously, & love listening to all kinds of music. I'm unattached, & ideally I'm searching for a Female led relationship with the right Lady. I ticked the 'online romance' box only because it would be nice to make contact where ever you are in the world.. I have a fairly high pain threshold, &, would be willing to try anything you would like to suggest. I like to think there's more to me than meets the eye, but, if I keep this short & sweet, I won't bore anybody. I'll probably add more as time goes by. My Holy Grail is to find my Hearts Desire, I hope I can be yours. Perhaps we can make the journey together? If you'd like to get in touch, that would be wonderful. My very best wishes, Gary. Ps. When I completed the 'interest & skills' section, the BDSM parts are ticked to show my interest rather than my experience. Just so that's clear :-).












 Submissive Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 9"

 165 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Online Romance

 Lives For:




 Rock Music


 Classical Music

 Folk Music


 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Opera Music



 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Curious About:

 Blue Grass

 Electronica / EDM


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Journal Entries:
1/2/2014 4:08:31 AM

New year & feeling so despondent :(. Is there no one willing to take a chance on me?

5/31/2013 6:01:07 PM

I have made some lovely friends in the whole three weeks I've been a CM member, How come I don't get any serious replies to my profile? I've had three idiots over the last twenty four hours, do people seriously have nothing better to do? I didn't think I was asking a lot, someone special & we could bond together. Perhaps I am, Perhaps all the genuine members of CM have already found what they're seeking, or not even looking, leaving the dregs.

I'm having a great time on the Message Boards, & with the friends I've made, I'll treat the fools with the contempt they deserve. Sorry for the rant, this is an adult site, why don't people behave as such?

5/31/2013 12:21:49 AM

Been a while since I've made a journal entry, but, just had to share this thought:- All of the people I look forward to hearing from, either on the Message Boards or Private Mail are American, or live in America, are there no British Ladies on CM Smile.

5/22/2013 6:22:37 AM

Working nightshifts, mean insomnia at 2 O'clock in the afternoon! CollarMe is a Godsend, wish I had a significant other to take care of & obey, sometimes feel a bit low.

 Still, long weekend to look forward to, yaySmile Smile Smile.

5/20/2013 6:37:00 AM

Just love reading the 'Positive Experience' forum, I feel so happy for everyone who has posted there, & it gives me hope & encouragement to carry on.

5/20/2013 3:34:51 AM

Yesterday, I had a particularly long & stressful shift at work, saved only by a wonderful dinner with friends. Home, straight to bed, completely done in Smile.

5/18/2013 12:53:14 PM

I've just journal edit thingy & thought I'd give it a go.


Played a gig last night at the Nags Head, went down reasonably well I thought, nursed hangover this morning, other than that, a pretty boring Saturday I think. Comes to something when you're looking forward to going back to work Laughing.

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