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I must start first by saying, yes, I am a married man so that it is clear to anyone I contact, so you don’t think or feel that I am trying to deceive you in any way. That being said, my wife and I truly live a unique life. We are polyamorous, living in an open marriage. To explain and give you an idea about us and our lifestyle, we do this together, mutually. It’s not one making the other do it. We feel that it is possible to be in a caring relationship with more than one person at a time. Polyamory is not for everyone and I realize that it is hard for many people to except or understand why we do what we do. I don’t ask you to ever understand or except it, I just ask that if I contact you and you are unsure about the situation I live in, rather than just blow me off, take the time to learn from me or her, about us and the beauty that is our wonderful lifestyle, relationship and marriage. The quickest way I can suggest learning about polyamory is, look it up online. The online encyclopedia is a great place to start to learn about polyamory but I must say, every situation is very unique and has its own personality so please don’t generalize or categorize.

I am not afraid of your negative criticism for I have received very much from women I have contacted, calling me a liar, a cheat or a sneak. I do this openly with my wife knowing everything, just the same as I know everything she does. I am very honest, I don’t lie, my wife and I must be completely honest in this lifestyle, we need to be honest and open about everything or else a lifestyle like this would never work. I do not play games either. I am very real and if I contact you it’s because I am interested in getting to know you in more ways than just simply in the bedroom.

I cannot stand liars or cheats. If you are in a relationship, meaning marriage or very committed relationship and your other half does not know what you are doing, please, do not contact me. Or, if this is your situation you are in, let me know from the start and we can be friends but nothing more. I do take this very serious so please do not play that game with me.

Hopefully I have been able to give you a somewhat understanding of my lifestyle. Here is some of who I am. I am a strong family man. Nothing means more to me in my life than my little girl and my wife. My family will always be first in all I do, any choice I make. My daughter will be three here in a few months. The only rule that I have is I show no physical affection to any other female other than my wife in front of my daughter. What I am saying is I will give you no more than a hug and friendly kiss in front of my little girl. The only one I show that type of affection toward in front of her is my wife, so my daughter does not grow up confused as to who mommie is. When she is old enough to understand and comprehend what mommie and daddie are doing, then she will have it explained to her. Until then that is my rule and I am very strict to abiding by it.

I have a true affection for music, reading, writing and coffee . I love to lay back and enjoy a movie but most of the time I enjoy sitting back, relaxing and listening to music as opposed to watching TV. I grew up in a small farm town so I tend to be a little simpler with the things that make me happy. I am ok with having a quite time together and enjoying each other’s company as opposed to needing to go out and party. I do enjoy drinking and I hope here soon to start experimenting with making my own homemade beers. I love shooting pool, it is truly fun and I am for sure not one of those guys who need to win or I become a spoil sport. Also, I will never just let you win. It’s not a competitive thing it’s just, when you beat me, you really beat me. My wife kicks my butt more than 95% of the time.

I love cooking. I would love to spoil you some time with my cooking and cooking together and spending time in the kitchen together is a great way to get to know me. I am not afraid to experiment and fail either.
Ok, that’s my snippet. I hope I have caught your attention in some way and I hope to be in touch with you sometime soon.

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kysubvixxen
 
 Age: 28
 Ibadan, Nigeria