I have not been in to or experienced a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle. Optimally, I like my lover to be my friend, and living handcuffed in a box is not a turn on for me. But I do want/need/love my sexual life to be 24/7 me sub, with a strong bitchy dominant woman at the helm. I yearn to follow her directions and to squirm at her hands both in sexual frustration and pain. I yearn for a woman who will order me to fulfill all her needs, and make me beg to have my smallest of sexual needs met. I am not in to extreme, blood, scat, and things the average person would find grotesque. I am in to all the aforementioned and more the average person would certainly find bizarre. Would you still like to converse farther? I have experence as a sub, but would love to explore aspects of BDSM that I do not have experience in such as chastity. I look forward with anticipation to your possibly reply.