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Hi, I'm Dave. I've lived in Philadelphia for about 3 years, and have been involved with kink since my late teens, and have been involved in a few D/s relationships. I'm a dom-leaning switch.

I want someone I can explore the darker side of our sexuality with, and still have fun with in a 'traditional dating' sense. My ideal partner is masochistic and obedient, but also interesting intellectually, and may be best described as a "sub with slavish tendencies", or even further along the slave spectrum. Above all else, I'm seeking a pleaser who will put me first in the relationship.


I’m very interested in the level of trust and psychological aspects BDSM can foster between lovers, and recognize that these take work and time by both parties. I love the rush of power exchange, the helplessness I see in my sub during bondage. Control, rules and obedience training also turn me on intellectually.

Finally, I am poly-curious but am completely un-partner at the moment, and I'm not allergic to monogamy with the right person.

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7/23/2011 5:41:15 AM

Three piece suits are MY fetish wear; if you see me at a party, I'm probably wearing a suit. There's all sorts of associations of power and authority wrapped up in a nice, well cut suit, and I thrive on those.


2/3/2010 6:36:37 PM
I'm have a new love affair with control and rules. Control is hot--you doing what I say, because you WANT to, not because you're afraid of punishment. 

6/9/2009 7:12:16 AM

Total, 24/7 ownership is an idea that really excites me. Having my perfectly brewed cup of coffee every morning... leaving a list of chores for you, knowing you'll be doing them in the clothes I picked out for you... you, always polite, adressing me as master and meaning it... not to mention sex exactly the way i want it.


Oh, its heady and addicting and oh so hard to find....


4/19/2009 5:00:06 PM

So some clarification on my sadist/masochist/painslut comments. I do have a sadistic side, and I'm defiantly looking to explore that side further. That being said, I'm not (necessarily) looking for someone to beat into oblivion. I get off on bringing people near the limits of their pain, and thrive on their reactions. So for me, if someone has relatively lower pain tolerance, I can still have fun with their reactions at the limit of that tolerance.

 

That being said, if you can’t handle being hit with a belt fairly hard, we’re probably on a different page.


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rottenapple
 
 Age: 61
 NYC, New York