A slave is owned by one and serve's the one without restriction in the manner determined by their owner. A submissive serves a dominant in the manner determined by the dominant, but is unable to be owned for a variety of reasons. I am of the opinion that either should serve as the dominant wishes without any expectations of restitution from the dominant and the submissive finds their satisfaction in the knowledge that they have been truly allowed to serve. Part of this is a willingness to be molded by the dominant in a manner that they desire and want.
The concept of being forced is a nice fantasy, but in today's society the submissive must have the will and want to serve the dominant. The submissives desire and want to please the dominant is the submissive's motivation to experience, accept, and perform tasks outside of their desire and/or interest.
It is natural for the submissive to be attracted to the dominant. Reality is found by the submissive by being willing to serve the dominant without preconcieved notions. To truly serve the submissive must be loyal, dedicated and obedient to the dominant.
A submissive must be useful and of value to the dominant. It is not the responsibility of the submissive to determine what the dominant deems to be useful and of value from the submissive, but rather to accept that they are there to serve that which the dominant finds desirable.
The submissive takes pride in their servitude and satisfaction in making the dominant proud and happy of their efforts. A submissive is proud to be known to serve and belong to the dominant.
The act of being trained by a dominant is an education process that the submissive welcomes. The submissive welcomes the opportunity to expand and perfect their abilities to serve. The submissives desire to serve is deeply seeded inside of them and touches the very core of their soul. The act of serving is felt to be an act of chivalary to the submissive.
I am a submissive male with a slaves heart. I would truly love to have the feelings that accompany the opportunity of truly being able to serve another. My hopes, dreams, and fantasy is that one day I will find the one that I may truly serve for a lifetime and that things will change enough to allow me to grasp that opportunity and experience it to its fullest.
Until such time, I will gladly talk and chat with anyone who think they may want to become friends. I am more interested in chatting about philosphies and concepts and have no real desire in online play and/or cybering.
In my heart, I truly believe I would make a good slave.
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For anyone contacting me, to chat or otherwise, you have to understand that I am in a vanilla relationship. Another limiting factor may be that I smoke. Yes, trying to quit, but not quite there as of yet. The beginning of any relationship, friend or otherwise begins with honesty and trust and this is my attempt to bring those to the foreground in an effort to develop a solid relationship no matter how it is defined.
Hope to hear from you soon!!!
2/25/2006 6:14:08 AM
It is rather amazing how different things can make you view the world in a different way. I have always though of myself as being somewhat of a logical person who thinks things through. Since I have gotten back into photography and really started learning about it, I am finding myself becoming very artistic.
I know most will pass my profile by and that is alright as I am still learning about myself. Geesh, you would think by now I would have already known me by now! :-)
One of the things I am really enjoying is the consideration of what will make my pictures better then any others? To me it is easy to take a good picture, but quite difficult to communicate things through a picture. I am not actively seeking out my passion as of yet as I am still in the infancy stage, but I do know that someone is going to be very surprised and very happy when they take the time to really get to know me and what I have to offer.
2/1/2006 7:27:48 AM
Just putting together my Nikon D70s. Very excited and looking forward to putting it through it's paces. I can't wait to start taking photographs, which I think are different then just pictures. Yeah for me!!!!
1/31/2006 11:40:26 AM
Just got my new camera!!! I would love to become one of the best fetish photographers there is. It will take a lot of work, but hoping it will be worth it. Drop me a vine if you would like to discuss, my motives are sincere.
1/11/2006 8:31:27 AM
I am slowly starting to work on my profile. Will try to add some pic's in the future and some interests. Nobody probably reads this stuff anyway, but there is some self fulfillment in doing it.
1/7/2006 11:02:42 AM
I don't know what to put here exactly, but this is a start. For now, I would say that I am searching for friends and will see where it goes from there.
