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firstresident

I am a 40 plus year member of the BDSM lifestyle. My first experience was when I was 17, and I have loved the lifestyle ever since. I am a Dom/switch, which is to say that I am mainly dominant, but I do jump the fence every now and then. I love to be whipped, spanked and paddled for hours, I love electrostim devices, and penile inserts, and can maintain myself for a LONG time. I love to give that special someone the type of pleasure that I enjoy, and I am a man who knows that "no" means NO! I am not an abusive or possessive person, and I am well known in the community as a "gentle Dom". I have experienced nearly everything that a male and female can share, and I love to share this lifestyle with a subbie, another switch, or a dominant female. nothing shocks me. I am a longtime member of "Lairdesade" (check their website), and I am a VERY safe and clean play mate. If you are a young girl who is into the lifestle because it is recently in vogue, you are NOT the person that I am looking for. It is called a lifestyle for a reason, not for wannabes! I am interested in any BDSM curious people. I want a woman who knows her own mind and body, someone who is looking for a connection, romance, long term relationship. I am NOT a player. I want a woman who knows the difference between a spanking for foreplay, and stimulation, and a beating just because the dom is evil and sadistic! I am not interested in sharing you with others, relationships are hard enough without complications. I don't like drama, so if you have a ton of emotional baggage, check out the next profile. I am bery strong in body as well as mind and will power, I know what I want and what I like, I say what I mean and mean what I say. I am somewhat playfull and can be very fun to be with mostly. I never get droll or serious. So, if you find any of this interesting, please PM me and let's talk a bit, who knows? I will be adding some more new and recent photos in the next week, so please check back!
xxSOMMERxx