I wish to be in a monogomous relationship, I am not interested if you have other partners who either know or dont know about your 'other life' I am single and able to offer you all that comes with being single so why should I not expect the same in return, I'm sure I deserve it

I am solvent, bbw early 40's,non smoker, very clean and able to accomodate the right person... yes make your own jokes LOL!!!

I have a full vanilla life but would like to compliment it with the full D/s life i desire so much

The type of relationship i seek is one where firstly we are exclusive where there is mutual support, understanding and no furtive phone calls from the bathroom or car on a sunday morning.

Of course this relationship would have dynamics and I would always know my place within it and be happy to be in it.

Most importantly i do not seek a bully, someone who uses D/s as a means to get a bit of extra curricular in, someone who agrees to limits only to then say ' I am the Master and I can now do as I please ' in other words I am not seeking a non consensual abuser.

Please dont message me if you are just looking for wank material of any kind be it words or pictures, my experience is such that I can almost always spot that type of dim (intentional) instantly. Oh please I have filled my profile in albeit a work in progress, if you memo please have some info on yours so I have something to go on, failing this please dont be offended if I dont reply!!

If however you are single, able to travel south, interested in most aspects of the D/s lifestyle, confident in your self and you abilities both as a Dom and a partner patient, consistent, menacing *winks*,clean, accessible very honest, and tall dark and handsome (ok a girl can dream about the last bit ) .... well what are you waiting for ......