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Hello, everyone! I am one-half of a female switch couple living in the Florida Panhandle. I'm a lesbian, she's bisexual but into girls far more than guys. I am primarily looking to meet friends here, of either gender. It's always fun to talk about kink and discuss ideas, plus I'm convinced that kinksters are just more interesting than vanilla folks. :) We are also (theoretically, at least) open to the idea of finding a new play partner or two. However, we only play with people we consider friends both inside and outside of BDSM. I'm very picky about my privacy due to my career, plus it's just more fun playing with people you know and like. So if you're looking for someone to play with, like, today, then we're not right for you. Also, if we have nothing to talk about besides our kinks, it's not going to work out. Your age, orientation, and gender aren't particularly important (with the obvious caveat that men will definitely not be getting sex from me), but your personality is. We don't travel much, so you should either be relatively local or able to travel to us on a semi-regular basis. Given enough notice, we can also host. Obviously, if you're only looking for friendship, then it doesn't matter where you live. :) Oh, one more thing: I don't use any messenger services, so when I say "talk," I mean exchange messages here. My internet time is very hit-or-miss and I'm almost always multitasking when I am online, so it's just easier for me that way. Interested? Shoot me a message.
9/22/2017 7:09:04 PM
Slave breaking: anyone out there who's been through it (on either side) want to chat about it and share experiences? I've been thinking about it a lot lately because of a good friend of mine; her Mistresses are planning to break her at some point in the relatively near future, and I thought that discussing it with others who've experienced it as well might help me to give my friend better advice and/or support. Just a thought.
8/13/2017 11:42:33 PM
Everyone knows that people with doctorate degrees are referred to as "Doctor." Now that I've finished my master's degree, does that mean people should start calling me Master? Hell, I'd even settle for Mistress, make it properly gendered... ;)
5/18/2017 7:54:19 PM
Oh, for anyone curious about my last journal entry and not sure what a "prison strapping" is, scroll through some of my older entries. Eventually, you'll come across a link, which will take you to a girl receiving a prison strapping. That ought to tell you all you need to know. ;)
1/20/2017 9:08:51 PM
i got prison strapped again. it was brutal. :) :)
12/24/2016 12:34:21 AM
Who else gets these bizarre repeat spam messages here, where the same guy contacts you from multiple different accounts and sends you multiple identical messages offering to pay you some obscene amount of money to dominate him in some ridiculous-sounding way? I got at least two of them from two separate accounts within half an hour of each other (and who knows how many more he tried to send, because I had blocked several of his other accounts already). Try messaging him back and calling him out on it. It was hilarious; first he denied it, then he spammed hate mail back at me from all of those multiple accounts he swore he didn't have! And naturally all of this written at a second-grade level at best. I thought it was good for a laugh, anyway.
10/18/2016 8:49:02 PM
I might have a bit of a girl-crush on Kate McKinnon. Just so y'all know. ;)
10/12/2016 7:07:15 PM
I'm back, everyone? Did you miss me? ;)

I've had a number of people ask me what happened to me and why I took a break from collarspace, so to avoid answering the same question any number of times, I'll just answer it here: about six weeks ago, I had taken off for a long run through a park near my house when two men grabbed me and dragged me into some nearby woods, where they raped and assaulted me.

Now, to answer all the questions that follow from that:
Yes, I'm okay. (Really.)
Yes, the two men were caught, and yes, they're both still in prison.
No, I didn't get pregnant, nor did I contract any diseases.

Anyway, just wanted to let everyone know what went down, and that I truly appreciate all the positive thoughts and well-wishes I received. You guys and gals are awesome.
8/10/2016 8:30:34 PM
Another request: do not ask me to follow you to take our chat to some messenger service, whether it's skype, yahoo, kik(?) or whatever is the latest messenger du jour. For one thing, I don't use them. The only messenger I ever use is the one on Facebook, on which I go by my real name, and thus am only going to give out to people I know really, really well. (And if you have to ask me whether I know you well enough, then no, I don't know you well enough.) Also, as anyone who chats with me can attest, my time on the Internet tends to be very hit-or-miss, and I usually don't know when or for how long I will be online. It's much, much easier for me to simply exchange messages through this site. And it tends to work just fine. Really. ;)
6/23/2016 8:57:59 PM
Thinking about getting a tattoo of a rainbow heart, similar to what's in my profile picture at the moment (this would be tattoo #4, for the record). Yay or nay?

Also, thinking that Abigail Fisher could probably use a spanking. :D
6/14/2016 9:19:20 PM
Still can't stop thinking about the tragedy in Orlando. The whole thing makes me physically ill. What a stupid, senseless, evil thing for someone to do. It just breaks my heart. I'm not really the praying type, but my sincerest thoughts are with all of the victims and their families and friends.
5/1/2016 1:42:42 PM
New toy time... a good friend of ours built us a wooden pony! The girlfriend and I have spent a good chunk of the weekend breaking it in. Fun times. :)
1/18/2016 2:13:10 PM
So, just a friendly suggestion to anyone to anyone who's considering sending me a message containing something bigoted: Don't waste your time or energy. Chances are I won't even read your message, and I'm even less likely to respond. You also aren't going to make me angry or upset. If I even react at all, it will probably be with mild amusement - which, if you really can't resist the urge to say something homophobic to me, I'm guessing is not your goal. :)
1/1/2016 1:02:33 PM
Something else I've been curious about lately. Are there any ladies out there under the age of 40 or so who like being called "Ma'am"? To me, it's always sounded like a name that's more appropriate for someone older...

And yes, that's how I feel about it also. Don't call me Ma'am, people.
11/8/2015 2:36:20 PM
Anyone here have experience with using tickling as a punishment? If you do (and regardless of whether you were on the giving or receiving end of it) please do shoot me a message; it's something that I've been thinking about lately and I'd be interested in chatting about it and discussing experiences.
9/5/2015 3:30:37 PM
My fate, at some point over the long weekend. Perhaps tonight. Any thoughts? ;) (NSFW, obviously)

http://www.yourlust.com/videos/freaks-of-nature-136-prison-strap-on-teen-100-swats.html
8/25/2015 3:08:16 PM
Some fascinating erotica I just read... or I guess you can call it "erotica," at least. Anyone into extreme fantasies might like this:

Part 1: http://www.asstr.org/files/Collections/Alt.Sex.Stories.Moderated/Year2001/33832
Part 2: http://www.asstr.org/files/Collections/Alt.Sex.Stories.Moderated/Year2001/33908
Part 3: http://www.asstr.org/files/Collections/Alt.Sex.Stories.Moderated/Year2001/33936
6/26/2015 3:23:25 PM
What a day. :)
1/17/2015 10:29:06 PM
Now sans appendix... still amazes me how such a tiny organ that you don't even need can cause so much grief.
11/1/2014 12:27:37 PM
A belated thank-you to everyone who sent me sweet messages about my grandma.
9/20/2014 9:26:01 PM
Rest in peace, Grandma. You were and will always be my hero. Even though I take some small measure of comfort in knowing you had a long, full life and are no longer in pain, I already miss you terribly. Thanks for being there for me all these years.
7/20/2014 8:50:53 PM
Back from my week of slavery. I'm still very sore but very content. Thanks so much, Miss M and Miss L! I miss you girls already.
7/14/2014 12:06:08 AM
Guess who's an owned and collared slavegirl now? :) I've taken a mini-vacation back home and am serving my ex-Mistresses for a week. Is there any better way to spend a few days off work? My Mistresses will have access to this account while I serve them, so if you have any suggestions for them, feel free to pass them along. ;)
6/1/2014 11:04:54 PM
Here is what might be a slightly unusual request. I would like to try being waterboarded. I've done it once in college and want to give it another go. If anyone has experience with this (and by that I mean you really have to convince me you know what you're doing) please get in touch with me. :)
mdbimattel
 
 Age: 35
 Oklahoma city, Oklahoma