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Hello all. I apologize if Im a bit vague on here but Ive always believed you can never be too cautious with protecting yourself. Thats why I dont have any personal pictures on here. Im happy to prove myself but Im just not taking the risk of a public picture on here. That said, while I grew up in California I spent several years in the Pacific Northwest and on the east coast for college and law school before just recently making the move back. While the lack of any winter is a bummer, being around family is priceless.
A bit about me though my first language is sarcasm. That said when the situation calls for it I am a serious person and will be sincere. Just expect that I will likely tease otherwise. I suppose underneath that sarcasm however Im a bit of a dreamer and an idealist though. I like to believe in good in this world. I guess I took Samwise Gamgees speech from Lord of the Rings way too much to heart. Im also a romantic at heart. I dont believe in casual affairs and prefer to spend my time upon something which will last and flourish in my opinion.
Outside of this world Im a big sci-fi nerd who loves to read, is way too hyped for the new Star Wars, and plays video games while also yelling at the TV when the refs make the wrong call in football or basketball games. I love going to comedy clubs and seeing stand-up or improv and I adore dogs.
I prefer the emotional and mental aspects of BDSM to the physical realm of it. Theres a truly special aspect to a connection so prevalent between two individuals where one can submit emotionally rather than physically. Anyone can simply beat a person physically, it means nothing other than a statement about your character. However, to create emotional submission, I see that as the ultimate sign of trust and bonding. I view an ideal relationship in this world as also incorporating vanilla aspects and where both of us can grow with one another rather than simply commands being made. A relationship where silence is comfortable and despite a hierarchy being present, we can be each others best friend.
Anyway now that this word vomit has been made, Id love to hear from anyone reading this. Whether or not to just have a fun conversation, develop a potential friendship or even something beyond that, Im never opposed to meeting someone new. Id just ask that if you message me, please give me more than hi. Im a wordy writer and nothing drives me nutty more than trying to figure out how to respond to a message like that since theres no substance. That said, I look forward to hearing from you all.
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