It seems the main problem in a site lie this is some how setting your self above the competition. Just like in the rest of life it is just another test to see who is best. I have spend hours on-line talking with prospective submissive only to find that it was man. So I think I at least have an idea what it must be like for the submissive trying to wade through all the prospective Dominants out there. That being said let me first tell you a little about my self.

I am 42 years old and have been active in this all now for over 20 years. I have always had dominant thoughts even as a young boy. Until I found the Internet though I had no idea of how many others were out there like me. I think what amazed me more was that there were people out there who wanted to be treated like that. I have a very open mind and do not judge any thing that others do as long as all that are involved are of legal age and consensual. When first meeting a new submissive I tend to be more laid back and I do not expect instant submission. I want to make sure the submissive is comfortable and at ease. Then when the time is right we will both know it and go from there.