I am new to this type of life....and wanting to learn more about it...Im not sure it is really for me...but would love to find out...I am very interested in being controlled and having someone to answer to....I find I really need that...but I am also not into pain and humilation. I have been reading and trying to learn on my own...now I am interested in talking to Doms and Subs too...If you think you would be interested in talking with me please contact me....looking forward to talking to U soon....