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I have been contacted by a few women here and must say the experiences have been very positive! Thank you for communicating with me and taking a sincere interest. There is one thing I would like to comment on, and it is this: While I understand the possible need for discreetness and previous exposure to gameplayers, cybersex, quickies and other jerks on this site, I will not meet with you unless we exchange some kind of photo and speak on the phone. You think I want to get hot and bothered by speaking with you? Guess again. I don't. It could happen, sure. But that is not my goal. I merely want to see if we can communicate and are roughly on the same page. I CAN tell you this, that if we are not mutually physically appealing to each other, BDSM tendencies will not keep us together!
So...so then...I am not going to look at some pictures of fluffy stuffed animals or some other ridiculous vanilla photo on your profile, and immediately meet up with you.
You may not be of sound mind. You may have an annoying lisp. We may be on two totally different intellectual planes. I'm not getting into my car, driving miles to see you only to discover within one minute that it won't work for me...or for us.
So while it sounds harsh, its not rocket science. Just plain common sense.
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