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Is it possible to have a wonderful monogamous relationship with a dominant woman? Can that woman also be interesting, humourous, faithful and kind?

However, you have to be a woman with a personality, not just a 'Domme'.

seeking my Goddess...

only rl for commited FLR

no online games

no sessions

no casual


Let's build a symbiotic relationship, a life together, of deep and abiding love and affection with the added excitement and subtext of Your strict domination, as the superior Female, of me. Maybe you are a feminist or dream of a gynarchic society? Then we have a lot in common.

But foremost it is about a commited, loving relationship with passion, laugh and happyness for both. It must be possible to find the right counterpart in this world for every deviant human being.
But, while kink is lovely, it is just that - play. It is not what forms the foundation of a strong D/s relationship. That comes through the strength of the power exchange that both people desire. If the woman itself become fetish for him, then it is the best what can happen. If you are addictive and love to be the alpha woman you are, then we are on the same page.
Beauty is in the Eyes of the Beholder. But to say it directly upfront: I'm an eyecatcher and so you should be too. Not interested in BBW.
Age is not important for me. You can be 25 or 50. Personality is important.
If you have a huge interest in chastity and tease, then we are on the same page. And if you think that any TPE relationship is based on "forced" chastity, total control and domestic discipline, then we are a probably a match.


PS: moving to L.A. - not anymore in NYC/CT
8/19/2013 1:12:54 PM

open for new Dating

8/15/2013 6:12:17 AM

for a coffee tomorrow?

Promenade in Santa Monica

Sitting with my Laptop there. 

Only for a coffee and we can get to know each other

what do you think?

8/14/2013 5:12:34 PM

You seek perfection?

 

then lets talk

2/3/2013 6:13:02 PM

why do all dommes seek an intelligent sub?

 

Maledoms never ask a female sub if she is intelligent.

11/15/2012 10:23:06 AM

moving to L.A.

11/7/2012 10:15:55 AM

Dear Mitt Romney, please send me your 'binders full of women' especially the section Dominant Women. I don't believe that you need them now. lol

10/3/2012 3:23:20 PM

i seek a Lady as Goddess and not a brat slut

10/3/2012 3:18:59 PM

please only experienced in rt! online is no experience!

10/1/2012 2:11:26 PM

funny M/s couple. ;-)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDspAjDE0p8

3/14/2012 2:23:26 PM

this is the point:

 

"With one look, she will pierce your heart, with one touch, she will feel your mind, and with one spoken word from her lips, she will bend you to her will."

3/13/2012 8:24:42 AM
ORGASMS ARE ONLY FOR WOMEN! by a french Gynarchist Mystress Sandra

One of the greatest gifts the Goddess created for Her Daughters on Earth is the joy and pleasure of the sexual orgasm. It is a pleasure the Divine bodies of Women are especially designed to enjoy to the fullest, especially when achieved through the Glorious Beauty and Splendor of Lesbian Love. This exquisite state of pleasure is something All Women are entitled to as often as they wish.

In Her generosity the Goddess also allows the inferior male body to experience to a lesser extent some of the same pleasure, but ONLY for the purpose of his being motivated to serve the Female and contributing to Her pleasure and comfort. The male is not entitled to an orgasm just for his own pleasure. That only makes him a less attentive servant for his Mistress. The pursuit of his own pleasure always leads males into anti-social and rebellious behavior against his Female superiors who are his rightful rulers.

The male, unfortunately, can always be counted upon to misuses the gifts of the Goddess. This is especially true with sex, which he has always tried to use for his own selfish pleasure instead of for the pleasure of Women, which is its true and only purpose, aside from procreation of course. That is why it is essential that in an orderly, that is a Gynarchic, society the sexual outlets and activities of males must always be under the complete and strict and absolute control of the Female.

The duty and purpose of the male is to serve and please the Female. Sex can be a powerful tool for the Female to use to control and train and condition the male to serve Her properly. The male should only be allowed to experience sexual pleasure under such conditions. The sexual climax should be withheld from him except under rare and special circumstances in which it will fulfil the purposes of the Female.

The most effective way to keep a male on his toes is to keep him sexually aroused without allowing him to climax. This keeps his mind focused where it belongs, on his Mistress and Her pleasure. Once a male has a climax he tends to loose that focus. Keeping him in this aroused state indefinitely keeps his mind on not only his Mistresses Beauty but also Her obvious Superiority. Using a chastity device on a slave male is the most efficient means of preventing him from trying to achieve climax through masturbation. Such selfish behavior it typical of most males and must be prevented by the Female.

So long as the male is completely dependant upon the Female for Her “permission” to experience any form of sexual pleasure he must keep his mind on serving and pleasing Her. A truly devoted male will forgo attempts to please himself for the sake of concentrating upon his Mistresses wellbeing. Unfortunately such males are rare unless well trained by their Female owners.

There are two situations where it is appropriate for a male to be allowed to have a sexual climax. One is during training to submissiveness to his Mistress. Allowing him to have a climax while experiencing or doing something particularly humiliating will condition him to want to be humiliated by his Mistress and to be happy in such a condition. An example of this could be for a Womyn to let Her male slave masturbate while laying beneath Her and than subject him to a “golden shower” at the moment he climaxes. In his mind from then on the extreme humiliation he experienced will be forever linked to extreme pleasure causing him to want to be humiliated by Her again and again and thus to happily accept his inferiority to Her.

The second is when a Mistress may choose to reward Her slave male by allowing him supervised masturbation. Such masturbation should always and only be allowed under Her direct supervision and observation. The male must understand that this is a privilege and gift granted by his Mistress and not a right. It should also be used to reinforce his submissiveness and subordination to Her. A good way to do this is to have the male kneel at the feet of his Mistress as She reclines at Her ease and directs his actions. It is best if he is naked at such times to emphasize his inferiority, vulnerability and subjugation to Her.

It is also a good idea for Her to have one or more of Her Female friends join Her in watching the show to add to his humiliation during the process. If She is a Lesbian than Her partner should definitely be present so that both Women cannot only enjoy the show together but also to emphasize their joint authority over him. If She or they have a Daughter or Daughters who are old enough to understand Gynarchic principals they should also be allowed to enjoy and take part in the session for their pleasure and education in controlling males. It is a must that this event be an enjoyable one for the Woman since the Female’s pleasure is ALWAYS paramount.

As the male performs before his Mistress or Mistresses the Women direct his actions, telling him when to start and stop, what to do and how to do it. They can comment on and laugh at him as he goes through his paces at their direction. From time to time they may also “play” with his organ and body for their amusement and to emphasize their ownership and control of him. When he is finally allowed to climax, he should be required to catch and swallow his cum both as a matter of cleanliness but also as a reminder that his male product is of no value to the Females present.

When this activity is complete and the male has “cleaned up”, he should then be required to crawl to his Mistress or Mistresses on his hands and knees and thank Her for Her gift of allowing him a Female’s pleasure by kissing Her feet until She tells him he can stop. All this reinforces his understanding and acceptance of his inferiority and helps him be a willing slave who can actually take his “rightful” pleasure from submitting to and pleasing his Mistress. Knowing that he has made his Mistress happy should always be what gives a male his greatest pleasure.

By maintaining strict and absolute Female control of the male’s sexuality Women will always be able to maintain complete and absolute control of their male property. This will ensure good social order, male obedience and good service from males to their Female rulers and owners. That service of course can also include oral sexual service to his Female owners. This is the most appropriate way for a male to pleasure a Female since it allows him to please Her indefinitely without his being distracted by any attempt to pleasure him-self. In some cases a Woman may wish to use Her male for intercourse, that is as a living dildo” which is Her right of course. In such cases it is recommended that the male have his sexual organs modified so that he can provide his Mistress with pleasure without the danger of him climaxing without Her permission. Of course Lesbian Love is the most pleasurable form of sex for most if not all Women in Gynarchic society and intercourse would only be used for procreation but the use of males as “sex toys” by Women is also the absolute right of every Female. The male is Her property to use however She pleases.

The male is a tool made for the convince and pleasure of the Female. The male only exists to serve the Female. It is a fact that he was borne to be Her slave and property. That is his natural state and a well-trained male will find his true fulfillment and happiness in serving his rightful owner and ruler, the Female. Being allowed to contribute to the sexual pleasure of a Woman is the greatest privilege for a male and should be sufficient for his happiness.

The duty and goal of the male is ALWAYS the pleasure of the Women and not his own. By keeping Her male slaves in a chaste but aroused state Women can enjoy all of the sexual and other pleasures that their male servants can provide in unlimited quantities. This is the Female’s right to enjoy and the male’s duty to provide. All Women should make the most of the gifts the Goddess has given them. Those gifts include the unrestricted and unlimited use of the services of their male slaves and the unsurpassed pleasures of Female sexuality and Lesbian Love and the unparalleled pleasure of the Female Orgasm which is Her “Exclusive Right” as a Woman to enjoy.

 

3/10/2012 12:01:08 PM

About chastity 

 

by a well known Mistress who doesn't want to be mentioned

 

Keyholding is far more than just having a key in your pocket. It is about developing a relationship of extreme control. But first it is only control and not owning. Chastity is far more intense than needle or knife play ... it isincessant ... it is control which never leaves you. It isn't just there during play. It is a lifestyle of submission, and being a keyholder is about being responsible for that submission. As a keyholder I have power to break a man's will, to completely break him and make him a wreck. It is an emotional journey for both, and one that involves total trust. Equally, being a keyholder isn't just about saying no. It is about gaining that trust in the first place. It is about understanding the trauma you can cause, but making it appealing, so that your sub craves it more and more and comes to enjoy that trauma, and feel comforted and in the end believe he actually needs it. Then there is the point to decide for yourself if you want to really own him and lock him forever like you would castrate him as kind of emasculation or you play a game and go back. There are various opinions about it. Some say that owning him means owning his sexuality in total is the goal every superior woman have and on the other side some say that it is not human and cruel. I would say that he identifies himself as misfit anyway and needs to be accepted as he is and you keep him in knowing that you love him with his trauma you made to him. Because it is you what you made out of him and cannot go back. You have to decide from the beginning what you want.Is it a game for you or do you really want to own someone to the fullest. When you are going through the last step then you really love him. And this is what he only wants from you. That kind of sadomasochistic sign and prove of love from you. My point of view 

 

3/8/2012 4:18:18 PM

About Queening

 

Original Author Unknown

Queening is, in the sado-masochistic pantheon of arts, the use of the
male face, mouth, and nose and tongue, as a substitute for sexual
intercourse and masturbation, by the dominant woman.

It places the man in the most slavish, subservient position, under
the woman's buttocks and crotch. She sits on his face, or has his head
trapped between her thighs. The whole event is devoted to her pleasure,
her orgasms, and her time schedule. The man's pleasure or pain,
satisfaction or frustration, desires or fears are of little importance, if any. The
woman's clitoris, vulva, labia and vagina demand service.

This thrilling, delicious sexual practice has an ancient and traditional
history. Ladies of medieval households often had pages To Whom It May
Concern: provide them with mouth, lip and tongue service under their skirts
while their husband were absent, thus remaining, technically faithful.
Many a young boy had his first lessons in. sex with his head under Madame's
backside, with her quim vigorously riding his face. Many young girls still
virgins, enjoyed orgasms on a male servant's mouths as the earliest sexual
experiences. In ancient Chinese courts one long tongued, trained male slave
was used by female royalty and court ladies as casually as if they were
going to the lavatory. The slave would be summoned, face-fucked then
dismissed casually and serenely. In old Japan, brothels would provide male
victims for such use by visiting, paying women and girls.

Mouth and tongue sexual service to the female genitals is 'cunnilingus' or
'cunnilinctus' literally cunt licking/ sucking. Queening properly places
the woman on top of the male face, using it ruthlessly and selfishly. The
lady commands, the man obeys. Having the male slave erect, frustrated and
unsatisfied adds to the sadistic pleasures enjoyed by the woman. In ancient
Persia, cleverly constructed chairs were known as man face stools with the
male face replacing the seat center. Ladies could lift their skirts, sit down,
cover the scenario with those skirts, and with gentle rhythmic, firm hip and
buttock movements enjoy private little orgasms even when others were present.
Old Indian pornographic graffiti depicts scenes like that, with gowned girls,
obviously in ecstasy, riding a male face while gazing at an enormous male erection.

In more recent, Western times governesses and nannies have been recorded
as teaching their young male charges just how to please their crotches with
their tongues. Many a frightened, cowed Georgian or Victorian boy knew
intimately the underside of Madame's skirts and felt the vice-like grip of
her gartered thighs round his head. Masquerading as a punishment and usually
followed or preceded by a whipping, the queening would take place in
conditions of discipline and severity. The curt command, the superior,
unsmiling demand would be followed by a rustling lifting of black, voluminous
skirts, the stripping off of Madame's panties and the heavy, fleshy hot damp
descent of her buttocks and crotch onto the boy's face. Heaven help him if
Madame did not orgasm satisfactorily. A savage whipping would follow.

Even down in the servant's quarters, the youngest male servant would find
his head trapped under housemaids' skirts. Cruelty seems to have been part
and parcel of queening procedures in olden times.

'Queening' by definition, requires a dominant, demanding woman and a
subservient, obedient man. The woman must be concerned only with her personal
pleasure and satisfaction. His mouth, lips, tongue and nose are merely live
tools there to pleasure her labia, clitoris, vulva and vaginal passage. He
must be trained, if necessary by painful punishment, in the proper use of
his facial features. She must gain the maximum delight and orgasmic satisfaction
without concerning herself with her victim's possible distress, humiliation and
discomfort. He is nothing more than a sexual toy or playing, as of no more
importance than her lavatory pan, her sanitary towels, her dildo, her
handkerchief, her lavatory paper, her condoms or contraception pills, or her
vaginal douche - all quite necessary to her private sexual and private well
being, but all usable and disposable.

10/14/2011 6:40:27 PM

i am wandering around aimlessly fumbling around in the dark seeking a strong strict and forceful hand to guide me into the light.  I see myself very content as a long term permanent dedicated obedient 24/7 tpe slave.  Can you be my light that lifts me from this eternal darkness which consumes me?

PUPPYWANTSAHOME
 
 Age: 22
 Wyoming, Wyoming