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As the profile states, I'm 25, female, pansexual (though, it restricts me to the bi category -- grump), submissive, short, and live in the lovely city of Seattle.
I am most often described as "shy" (a term I actually reject and prefer to replace with introvert) and odd (in general). I find that, given time, I open up... however, my "odd" qualities tend to increase, so choose wisely.
I'm a student, a belly-dancer, and a goof.
I've been into kink for... well, as long as I can recall, but became "active" about 3 years ago (soon to be 4, yikes). I love learning and the relationships (friends, and otherwise) I've made while active in this lovely culture of sexual deviance.
I'm an extreme introvert by nature (thus, the latter part of the nickname) so I tend to not to do well with large crowds of people, but it's something I'd like to work on. I am a CSPC member, and I'm working on going to a munch or two in the future.
So, what I am looking for... well, I'm not sure. I know I am very much missing having kink play a role in my life. I love to submit to those I feel worthy, and it really is something that makes my heart happy -- just hard to find those folks. I don't have a particular rhyme or reason to why I can submit so fully to some, and not others.
I've spent the last few years being poly, and currently if nothing else, am focusing my energy on finding (and being someone's) primary. In addition to a primary (because I'm a demanding sort of gal) I would also like to pursue a triad sort of situation -- pending it all jives well and what not. I do enjoy being a unicorn.
Ideally, I'd like to maintain the poly aspect, but pending timing, I'd be willing to give monogamy a go.
Other than that? Kinky, taller, and older than me (but not by more than 10 years) with a dominant personality (knows what they want out of life, is setting up a career, and has control of their shit)
What I'm not looking for... much easier: someone younger than me,
someone who demands my submission/monogamy without knowing much
about me, a long distance relationship, polygamy, people to make babies with.
I really loathe the formatting for this site -- it's very 2001 or something? Anyhow, other places to contact me (and see pictures) are OKC (boldinterrobang) or FL (same name as here)
Pro-tips
- I am not looking for an LDR
- If you shoot me an email, do not demand I pledge my submissive allegiance to you. It's a terrible, terrible idea. I'm not trying to be snarky, or ruin your day -- but I can think of nothing else that derails all interest from communicating with someone more than when someone believes that a submissive who is uncollared is up-for-grabs. I am a submissive; not your submissive.
- If you are a submissive, don't ask me to top you. You could be the sexiest thing in the world, but I don't have a toply/switchy bone in my body. Sorry... otherwise, feel free to contact me as a friend. I like friends!
- Spelling, grammar, and punctuation carnage will not be tolerated. Mistakes are okay, but if you "txt speak" me an email to save yourself from punching two extra keys ("4" instead of "for", "u" instead of "you", "y" instead of "why") I'm going to save myself the trouble of replying to you.
- Most importantly, I have a kickback, and I'm not afraid to use it
I do have photos, but this site isn't very... compatible... for how I would have them displayed, so please contact me (or visit the sites mentioned) if you'd like a picture
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