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| I'm a queer, high-femme, poly dyke switch who is mostly interested in bois, genderqueers, butches, fags (cis and trans), and the occasional dirty femme.
I am currently interested in play and dating, though these days I'm a bit of a slow-mover in the relationship arena. I am not opposed to a casual play arrangement developing into a dating relationship, if the chemistry is there. My more vanilla profile is up on okcupid with the same username; feel free to pop by if you want to know more. :)
Okay, now the sexy stuff!
As a top, I like service bottoms who enjoy the satisfaction of completing a job well-done. I like showing my appreciation however I see fit, though I am especially fond of riding crops and any toys that fall into the "slappy" category. I like pushing bois against a wall and making them tell me what they want, and deciding whether or not they deserve to have it. I like obedient bois who want to please me, and who are always keeping an eye on my water bottle and never letting it get empty. I like bois who wait for me on their knees, or bent over my bed. I like (consensually) toying with dirty little minds until they're begging for more than they thought they could take. I like genuine, unassuming helpfulness. I adore sweet, chubby faces that break into smiles, and shy, bashful eyes. I love red sharpies and editing mistakes in writing assignments.
As a sub, I love dirty-talking, dominant, boundary-respecting, negotiation-savvy, perverted, controlling, Daddy-energy tops who keep the power play in the bedroom and can maintain a relationship among equals everywhere else. I like submitting to a dom who wants to show me my capacity to be dominated. I like being loaned out and used by my dominant's friends. I like wearing a vibrator at a public play party and being told not to let on that I'm doing so. I like being cherished, comforted, and told that I am a good girl when I am scared, pushed close to the edge, or coming down off an intense scene. I'm not a masochist, but I do like some pain mixed with my pleasure (especially when used as motivation or punishment.)
NOT into: cultural appropriation, racism, unexamined privilege, willful ignorance, oppression, lying, cheating, unsafe sex, bad boundaries, substance ab/use, or hipsters.
I have a long-term, long-distance, non-primary relationship with a genderqueer butch who lives in NYC with his wife. He is my Daddy and my Boy, and I am his Daddy and his girl.
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