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| I don't really know what to write, except, that I really don't know what my orientation is. I've never had a partner to really find out with. I do know what turns me on by either watching or reading, but i don't know if that would really cross over into reality. So, we'll see.
Okay, just to clear some things, I've been on this site less than 24hrs, and i almost deleted it. My bff convinced me to wait it out. the email bombardment was overboard.
I can tell you that since this is new to me, and when i say new, completely new. Besides a little rough sex with some spanking, it has ALL been vanilla for me. So in order for me to find someone to trust, i have to know what you look like. No, i am not vain as i am not perfect at all, but i have to at least be attracted to you, to have some chemistry to start off in order for me to want to try anything. So if there are no pictures on a profile, i can't go off just a message that says Hi. I get enough of that on a dating sight.
to explain why i don't know my orientation. I'm one of the 'bosses' at my job, always have been for most of my career. Which means i am very dominating and demanding at work. I also work in a male dominated industry so while I would think it would be easy to just have a male sub, I have never been dominant in the bedroom. So while I think it would be fun to let my work self come out, I want to be completely controlled but with my pleasure still being a goal.
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