So who am I and what am I doing here? (That’s the point of a profile, right?)

I’ll cover the ‘who am I’ bit later and concentrate on ‘what am I doing here’ bit first. That way, if what I’m here for doesn’t interest you, I don’t need to bore you with who I am. Efficient, yes?

What am I doing here?

I’m looking to talk to women under 28 (i.e. around my age) about BDSM with the intention that after getting to know me, we could explore it in real life. I want to make friends. I want to expand my experience of dominating and topping. I am already good at bondage. Yes, I can tie you up helpless - but I want to explore the opportunities that affords with a BDSM dynamic – to tease, torment, discipline, reward and liberate.

Who am I?

I’m 25, single and work in middle management. I buy my team lots of chocolate. I stay calm and manage to laugh in the most difficult of circumstances. I love exploring the unknown and regularly travel independently.

I haven’t figured out yet what my purpose is here on planet earth, or what it is I want to leave behind. In the mean time, I try to add value to all around me – and that includes people. I think I would be happy to say that I’ve added value to the lives of all those who’ve known me – that their lives have been richer for having known me. If that’s the one thing I leave behind, I’ll be a happy man.

Sounds too good I hear you say? Well, let me throw in some odd quirks. I really dislike shopping for non-business attire (not sure why). I don’t drink alcohol. I listen to way too much 80s and 90s cheese.