please...when contacting me refer to the following first...

1. be within a reasonable driving distance from me....another country or state is NOT a reasonable distance

2. be SINGLE....as in UNATTACHED...this does not mean separated or "its complicated"

3. please know the difference between submissive and slave...i am the former, not the latter

4. READ my profile all the way through...if your kink is not listed/mentioned, ask before sending an email detailing an act i probably will find offensive

5. be between the ages of 45 and 55

AND....thank you in advance to those that know how to be respectful and polite...it is much appreciated.

another day of masochistic self pleasure....how shall i amuse myself today?

people just crack me up....lawlzzzz

just a heads up..... steveddy45 is a fake. he is a real person but when it comes to sending pictures or meeting he wusses out. just another sad little man with no balls.

if actions speak louder than words, what do your actions say about you?

Hope everyone has a great thanksgiving day!

mmmm been baking all afternoon and now the house smells amazing and yummy!

my weekend was awesome!... how was yours?

mmmm...another gorgeous day of playing in the woods! almost as good as being bound to the bed. but only almost...lol.

ok..this really irked me...

a "dom" wrote "you must really be picky"

damn straight im picky. its my body and i am entitled to decide who i share it with and how. and just another point that proves how i feel about a lot of the "doms" floating around out there now. if they were Doms they would know and understand this and not send me emails otherwise to the fact.

i REEAALLYY am not a bad person that bitches all the time. though from my recent posts it may look to be so. i am actually a very kind and down to earth person. but i am just so fed up with people that dont really have a clue about this because they cant get past the "kink is cool" concept or that because they put "dom" in front of themselves they think they are ENTITLED? to act as asses.

ok gonna ask for a little help here ... please be nice in your responses ...

i am curious about how my profile is being interepted by others. i thought i had written it in such a concise manner that what i am seeking would be evident to all. and yet i am getting emails from men that are "seeking" things so far fetched from what i wrote that it really makes me wonder if they even read my profile as well as worry for other submissives out there that may be experiencing the same issue.

how can someone get from my profile that i want to be treated like an animal? that i have no boundries or limits what so ever? that i would even remotely enjoy rolling around in filth? or that i would willingly let anyone inflict pain upon me beyond what I percieve as MY limits without discussion? that i would let anyone, regardless of a self proclaimed title, commit bodily harm to myself?

if i had stated that i was a slave or wished to learn a slaves life then i could understand the responses i have been getting. (or at least some of them...lol) but i am submissive and last i checked there is a definite distinction between the two. this means that no one has control over me in any way, shape, or form until i consent and give that person said control.

i have been called bitchy and bratty by some. and have been told i need to learn my place. maybe it isnt myself that needs learn. maybe it is the ones that "think" themselves dom should find mentors and actually learn what it means to be Dom.

*yawn*

ok...for the ass-hats that keep getting offended by my comment regarding my breasts and just HAVE to send me emails regarding it...stop. i dont give a flying fart what you think of me. if i want to get upset over the fact that other ass-hats think that just because they send me an email such as "nice tits" my clothes should automatically fall off and i plummet to my knees with head bowed then that is my issue and i really can do without your pithy comments. i do not have to explain to you why the comments upset me nor justify ANYTHING i write in MY journal. in short, if you dont like what you read....move the fuck on and refrain from sending me your "words of wisdom".

to those that send the emails with just the words "nice tits"... i wont reply. get pissed because i dont. i could care less. but i dont consider it a proper introduction therefor will be deleted without a response so save your energy to harrass someone else.

and if there is anyone left that i HAVENT offended....hey! thanks for stopping by and have a great day!

rudeness is so unnecessary...seriously.

AAAARRRRGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

thinking i'll take a break from here for a while. getting real bored with those that respond and real disgusted by those that cant say anything more than "nice tits". maybe in my absence someone will get a clue.

in the meantime...good luck.

just as the leaves begin fall and settle into something new, so do i. and it feels comfortable. thats all i can ask.

ggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..... sorry but it had to be said

yes they are real.....and they are spectacular