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UPDATE*************** cunt is the collared 24/7 cunt of Sir Andrew. On the day that cunt heard Sir's voice for the first time, he brought color to her life. The moment Sir kissed cunt was was magic. cunt knew that Sir was the love of her life. cunt gladly puts her life and happiness in Sirs hands. He monitors this profile until it is closed.... staying on to keep in touch with friends. ******************* While trying to figure out what to put here, I decided to take a novel approach and try honesty, vulnerability and directness.

I am what many would call a lifestyle submissive. We in this "lifestyle" all seek a certain balance. We have family, commitments, employment.

Over recent year's I have learned I have a very keen interest in Power exchange. There is something so seductive rituals, rules, and protocol's in a D/s relationship.

While in a D/s relationship, things seem so clear. The up front negotiation takes a lot of the guess work out. Creates calm, yet, intense relationship.

I have learned that service becomes a natural part of a D/s relationship. Its all about the desire to please. Needing to please your Sir becomes your world.

However, it would be very remiss of me to not point out that I am a very sexual submissive. The ritual's of use and sexual service keep me grounded.

In a safe environment how deep I can go into complete TPE, sexual submission, ritual, protocols, S/m will be dictated by my Sir.

This is a beautiful dance. Sir, must take take all the a sub can give him, then lead her with his strength and power.

At least, that is my fantasy.

My Ideal Person: My ideal person, all ways an interesting question.

Someone that is not perfect but desires a healthy lifestyle both physically and emotionally.

He would be well read and older than me but with a youthful spirit and energy.

He has a BDSM library because like me he has been a Dom all his life. He may have had to put a name to it but it was there. Because it was, he has been collecting books and reading websites.

He knows there is not a "one true" way. He has probably attended munches and play parties. If he hasn't it was lack of opportunity.

He isn't a bedroom Dom. He needs a sexual submissive, not just a service sub.

He is passionate, intelligent, intense. He has enough wisdom and years to know himself.

He is a safe, sane, Sadist.

His toy bag has all manner of S/m toys. He has floggers, crops, canes, paddles, cuffs...ect.

He has to have had these things or he will not know how to use them. He has to have had these things or he will not know how to use them.

He knows the beauty of building an S/m scene.

That is my vision on my Dominant prince charming.

Yes, I am a romantic.    

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2/20/2014 4:08:03 AM

Sirs and subs,

 

Hello all, I just completed the interest check list. I filled it out completely which had me thinking.

 

I am beginning a new healthy lifestyle regimen, and realized just now how fitness can be fun. Its also a great relaxed way to get to know someone.

 

So, I am in the clear lake area. If anyone wants to get together for evening walks. Please let me know. It a way to let the work stress go, get exercise and enjoy the out doors.

 

A bonus would be hanging out with lifestyle friendly people in a relaxed low pressure way.

 

d.


2/20/2014 4:03:42 AM

We have all discovered that their are a lot of fakes, on-line role players and tourist on this site. Interestingly enough, they are on the other sites, as well.

 

Since my goal is to actually connect with someone, I thought how better than to have a journal.

 

My thought is, my counter part is out there. I will be patient and work on personal growth but at heart I am an ever changing "lifestyle" submissive.

 

What lifestyle means to me is ( you never know what words mean to different people)

Lifestyle, (d's definition) someone that has been actively seeking to engage and educated themselves about BDSM, S/m, M/s...ect.

 

They have bought books and studied websites. They have a gained enough knowledge and experience to Own a toy bag. They can communicate clearly about BDSM. (they haven't just been a Dom all there lives because they like to be in charge)

 

I have been exploring BDSM all my adult life. It has taken turns and morphed at times. I always come back to wanting a Strong, Assertive, Controlling, slightly arrogant DOM.

D/s is a beautiful dance.

 

I always come back to that analogy because one Lead's and the other Follows. This happens very naturally in a true D/s dynamic. Where it is complete. It is a safe place to explore and experience. There has to be trust, time to learn each others rhythm.

 

Some people click immediately, move together like they were make for each other. Others build knowledge more slowly. They practice. Laugh when they step on each others toes.

Simply enjoy the dance. No matter how imperfect it may seem.

 

Me, I seek a true dominate man that is willing to be patient. To learn about me, allow me to learn about him.

 

Yet, this is the contradiction. I recently was able to explore what it would be like to have a TPE. Master/slave dynamic. I think the dynamic we were building was a little ridged but I responded to it very well.

 

I learned that I truly do like to not have to sweat the small stuff. Not have to read between the lines. Knowing that I was expected to do exactly as I was instructed, not required to get creative or to read between the lines was so freeing.

 

So, I will be patient. A submissive in need of training and guidance, yet content to work on self improvement until the Sir of her dreams materializes.

 

I do have a very strong desire to be collared but only after being trained. Not looking for a Velcro collar. It wouldn't be real and it would not last.

patiently waiting

d.


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Miss4LongTerm
 
 Age: 41
 Troy, Michigan