I'm looking to explore some longtime submissive fantasies with a compatible domme. I'm a strong person with a full life, who wouldn't come across as all that submissive normally. I've learned through experience that I can't submit to "just anyone" -- basic chemistry and respect for her as a person are key. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, sane, cheerful/humorous, engaged and engaging, and has a wicked control streak. Strong dominant urges but also a life beyond BDSM. Smart enough to play the psychological as well as the physical game.

Once trust was established with someone I think I would have few limits beyond basic health and sanity. Most of the fantasies listed on this site would be potentially on the table. My fantasies do tend to be more about sensuality and control than pure masochism though. I relate best to people with a nurturing / caring element in their dominance.

I'm single, and I'm open to anything from a casual "friends with benefits" relationship to something more lasting, depending on chemistry. Happy to provide more info after we contact...