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	Well it's time I update this profile properly, expect it to change as time goes on, but we all need to start somewhere. For details on my age, location and preferences.. well pause here and look at the rest of the profile. I'll wait... Back? Okay good-- Wait, are those peanuts? Where did you get peanuts? Okay never-mind the peanuts, where was I? Hi there, pleasure to me-- welcome to my profile. I've been a fan of bondage ever since watching caper-of-the week drama's on television. Much later I discovered that there was a whole 'lifestyle' people belong to who enjoy bondage and related kinky activities. I've been a participant in the lifestyle for ten years, sometimes dominant but never submissive and always working bondage of some kind into the kinky mix. I'm not particularly dominant with strangers, and someone's submission isn't something I'm really looking for. The dominant/submissive roles in a relationship naturally develop between two people, and the 'type' of dominant I am is a reflection of the submissive I am with. My kink is bondage, and I'm equally happy in bondage as I am helping someone else into it. I'm not a sadist, and pain isn't much of a kink for me. (But if you really wanted a spanking to go with your bondage I'd happily oblige you.) I enjoy seeing women dressed (and undressed) in clothing and costumes that compliment her femininity. Gags, blindfolds and other fetish gear is fun to play with, as are ideas of begging, teasing, orgasm control and predicament bondage. Well if you've made it this far (and you are wishing I would have written more in this profile), I invite you to send me an e-mail telling me so. In fact, tell me the next thing you would have wanted to read here and I'll send you a response. M

8/8/2012 11:31:29 PM

On a more recent note, I've been growing more and more curious about some of the self-bondage stories I've read and videos I've seen. I'd be interested in discussing the idea with similarly minded people. I'm also extremely curious to play around with the idea of a couple putting themselves into self-bondage with each other. (I know it sounds like an oxymoron.)